Our relationship was 4 yrs old when i found out my bf was into cyber sex.I had a suspicion and i told him i would ignore whatever had happened for the sake of our love & that it must stop.There were absolutely no questions asked.6 months later i found out he was still into it.This time i confronted him,and told him it was over because he risked all that we had,for some unreal fantasy. Real or not,it was cheating. He broke my trust,he admits to it,but he says "it didnt mean anything". We were so much in love,and both of us think we had everything.Why would he then risk our relationship when we were so happy together? He says he knows i cant forgive him and he's sorry for the pain he has caused me,but he really loves me.I dont know whether this was another version of cheap porn for him,but i feel cheated.I love him a lot,he's always on my mind,but i dont know if i'll be able to regain my trust in him.Should i give him another chance? Should i take him back?
2007-01-12 17:44:14 · 5 answers · asked by tina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey darl..well i would feel exactly the same..it may start off as something that little but if he finds some one that is really good @ it he may want to meet up with them to feel the truth. but i dnt think he would do that to u tho it sounds that he is really sorry from the bottem of his heart..maybe he is bored and needs more affection/attention from u.. take the computer away from him and say to him if u are willing to have a relationship with me u have to get rid of the computer n not do anything like that again...just tell him straight up how u feel and what u want...i say give him another chance but just be careful that he doesnt get the idea ur easy and that he can get away with n e thing..stand ur ground...good luck
2007-01-12 17:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would. I can understand the way you feel, but the way I see it... as long as he isn't meeting the people he has cyber sex with, you're not in too much trouble.
But do make your feelings on the matter clear. Maybe suggust that he gets sees some one (like a therapist) to help him sort his feelings out.
He's doing it for a reason weither he realises it or not, and she understand it before it gets him into deep trouble.
Thing can start small but then grow into huge problems, you know?
But, good luck with all this. I hope it works out for you.
2007-01-13 01:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by Dreaming of You 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you be mad with him. Guys usually have lots of fantasy. What you should do is to be frank with him, tell him to stop his activities or else you can just say good bye to him.
2007-01-13 01:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by Carol T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have heard about this being a real sickness...seriously Oprah did a show on it i think i know someone did....thought it was her...but i would talk to him about getting help ....and work from their.....love is too precious t throw it away
2007-01-13 01:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by Krystina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope...
2007-01-13 02:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋