I'm a 19 year old girl and I got an issue. I really think I'm in love with my 18 year old sister. I'm not a lesbian ( or maybe I am) I just really like her. 2 years ago I saw her in the shower and I when I got out of there i felt strange. I keep having these fantasies about her. Plz I know this doesnt sound so good but should I try to get into a relationship with her and maybe even have sex.
2007-01-12 17:40:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's legal here.
2007-01-12 17:45:07 · update #1
It is perfectly natural to look at other females, but to be in a relationship with your sister is incest. Which can lead to a many number of problems. If you feel as though you might be lesbian, try having a relationship with another girl (who is not your sister). If you find this doesn't quite suit you, find yourself a man. You are always going to be attracted to the ones closest to you, male or female, its natural- but this doesn't mean that you need a relationship for that person.
2007-01-12 17:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my wife and her sister finally admitted to being in love with each other and we all get along great. At least by being honest and open you won't feel like it's eating you away inside. 9 chances out of 10 she probably feels the same about you. You never know until you at least have a one on one conversation about it. Try discussing it while she's tired in the evening so she's a bit drowsey and less likely to toss her guard up and act like your feelings are just hypothetical.
2007-01-12 17:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of whether its legal where you live, is not the issue because its still wrong. It is wrong to have sex with your sister, just like its wrong to have sex with your mom, or your dog for that matter. Of course its worse for a guy to have sex with his sister, but thats just my opinion. In any case, its still wrong. I would seek professional help to help with your fantasies about your sister. I hope this helps you.
2007-01-12 17:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD Contol yur self !!!!!!!!!!!!! the reason yur in love with yur sister is becuz she's ur sister and sisters are supposed to love each other and its impossible 4 u2 to have sexual intercourse cuz she's definitley gonna resist (unleass she's also lesbianily in love with u at least none of u will get pregnant ^_^) Ill say it again CONTROL UR SELF!!!!!!
2007-01-12 17:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by Hello^_^ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so ridiculous. Maybe you just like her, infatuated w/ her, or your just over reacting. Maybe your just looking for a relation w/ someone. Try to look out for possible guys that you might like because if you did your plan, she might lose her respect for you.
2007-01-12 17:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Rhine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Incest-
sick-o
2007-01-12 17:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you go ahead just think about how your sister might feel if she found out about it and ask yourself how do you feel if your are in the same shoes as hers.
2007-01-12 17:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by Carol T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think.. u have to seek help of professinals.. it is ok if u wanna be with a girl.. but ur sister!!! it is indeed very complecated...
why donot u try to find out by urself whether u r lesbian or not......
a lot of things will be clear....
2007-01-12 17:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay,
First it is okay to want to be with a girl. Having feelings of attraction at your age is natural. I do think that you may need to talk with someone of a professional nature to get some of this straightened out.
Sex with a family member is not okay.
2007-01-12 17:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by beaton_tlc 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's illegal! Find a woman that looks like her or has the same qualities, try it out! Send me pics.!
2007-01-12 17:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by pitman L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋