with all my previous relationships i was really open about me feeling but so were my boyfriends. My current boyfriend is not at all open with his feelings. So i never open up either. i dont want to seem like a bitchy girlfriend. So when he does something that bothers me i dont say anything. BUt neither does he unless hes drunk. Then he does. I dont know if its because he feels the same way i do or what. I know he cares because he always says things that bother him when hes drunk. How can i open up without being too controlling or jealous. Does he even think that or and i just being dumb??
2007-01-12 17:31:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer is in the Bible...It says, "don't let the sun go down on your wrath". To me that means to settle things day by day. There are ways of saying things without being destructive. He sounds like he has some serious problems...why are you hanging out with a drunk anyway? Just curious. A man will not grow and improve without feedback of some sort. Have a good evening. Mmm
2007-01-12 17:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it important for you to get mad? if not, why should you? Because if you do so you will feel very upset.
If you love him, don't bother to tell him what happened to you in the past. Tell him lets things gone to be by gone and get him promise to do the same. You can;t change your past but you can change your future.
Take care!
2007-01-13 01:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Carol T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and have a heart to heart talk. tell him as his girlfriend you have the right to know what he is thinking and that you are just trying to help him if something's bothering him
2007-01-13 01:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by van 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep him drunk and all should be fine then.
2007-01-13 01:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you open up, he also would...
2007-01-13 01:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by Rhine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest.talk up
2007-01-13 01:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋