if you found out the love of your life was gay?
2007-01-12 17:29:27 · 27 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't do a thing.........
They made their choice and it had nothing to do with you.
There is nothing you did, or did not do to cause them to make this life-choice. If anything you should feel pretty good about yourself that they tried to be with you despite the fact that they were beginning to feel 'different'.
Stay friends if you wish, cut ties if you need to.
But if a boyfriend is what you need, you're going to have to look to someone else for that now.
2007-01-12 17:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by wolf560 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another love of my life.
2007-01-12 17:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Benji Duncan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wish them well. Love the sinner , not the sin.
Give them a bible and tell them to start with Romans then to Genesis. Let them know it is wrong in God's eyes (if you believe) and God frowns upon this action.
Good luck, God Bless and I'm sorry you are going through this.
2007-01-12 17:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Wabbit 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That same thing happened to an old roommate of mine. She was definitely devastated at first but she was able to be best friends with him and move on.Hope you can do the same. Good Luck!!
2007-01-12 17:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by slvrcss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well accept the fact that he is what he is then take ur time and find urself someone else coz that is just life nowdays u go up and down and u always have to pick urself up and keep moving
2007-01-12 17:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by vakere2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My lofe of my life left me for my friend who afterwards turned out to be gay...
2007-01-12 17:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Cyrax 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a little disappointed, but feel better that you could tell them anything, and that you can tell him you lyked him, or you can go without telling them coz you already know the answer. Then you can spend more time with them, without thinking that they are thinkin that you lyk them. Go shopping, have fun with them.
2007-01-12 19:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it isn't going anywhere. You need to move on. It will remain as a friendship. The one thing you can do is go man hunting together.
2007-01-12 17:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by justcurious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose that would be a wake up call to you that they are not who you thought they were. There is a love of your life out there, who is straight.
-NmD!
2007-01-12 17:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been on the other side of that problem. What can either of us do in that situation?
Everyone hurts, everything changes. Can't be helped really.
2007-01-12 17:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by beaton_tlc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋