People just do not know what they are doing at times to other people. They are careless with their affection and their manner of relating to a partner. In other words, they have a lot to learn. Humans usually do.
It is however not a permanent wound, learn by it and be more careful with sharing your affections. Others sometimes do not know what they are being offered. So forgive them and give yourself some space because life is one long learning experience.
Also, forgive yourself for being vulnerable. It is good to be vulnerable, but it hurts, so be even more careful next time.
Don't get into another relationship before you understand the mistakes you made and have forgiven yourself.
You well get over it, and you well learn.
2007-01-12 17:12:23
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answered by zclifton2 6
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He takes no pleasure in the death of the wicked....
He desires that EVERY person comes to the knowledge of the truth and enter into a relationship with Him.....
Jesus bore the punishment for us all...including those that we think deserve it the most. God's grace is far and abundantly greater than our skewed personal sense of "justice".
He loves and forgives those people you describe, just like he loves and forgives you and me. And what terrible things did WE do wrong today? Believe me, we don't want justice - we need mercy!
And mercy is what He's got!
2007-01-12 17:27:30
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answered by CassandraM 6
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I imagine he is like a father who hurts when he learns of your wrongdoing. He would try to rebuke you through some means which may be equated to you taking responsibility for what you have done wrong. If you would repent, he'd be happy. If you keep repeating, you'd be an outcast in the family and never to be welcomed unless you sincerely repent with all your heart-- with the added punishment of taking responsibility for your actions, even if it means death.
2007-01-12 17:08:37
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answered by bulimpact 2
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That they made a very bad choice with the freedom he gave them in choosing how to act. But like a loving parent, God (love) does not change.
2007-01-12 17:10:53
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answered by Capernaum12 5
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God knew before anyone was born everything they would do. Since he created them one must conclude that God approves of Rape, Murder, Child abuse, Anything and everthing! After all he had the power not to create it and yet he did!
Remember God has a plan and part of that plan was to kill his son before the foundation of the world! See we were set up from the begining!!
2007-01-12 17:04:37
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answered by Anonymous
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Thats why without Christ we cannot be with him. You cant be with God if you have sin, because he is so holy and perfect. but thats why the only way to come to the father is through Christ as it says in the scripture. His love for us is unconditional, never changing, never ending. He's faithful even when we are not. He loved us even as we were nailing him to a cross, spitting in his face, sinning against us. he was still so completely in love with us.
2007-01-12 17:04:08
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answered by Tasha Marie 3
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Depends on the situation. Was it done intentionally? Knowing the consequences BEFORE doing the deed?
I think I've said this a few times this week
2007-01-12 17:04:27
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answered by Da Mick 5
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God = Love
Love = Forgiveness
Forgiveness = God
2007-01-12 17:02:43
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answered by dang-duh! 2
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God knows there has been no hurt...God only knows us as God created us. Everything else is illusion. We remain whole, perfect, complete.
2007-01-13 03:31:23
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answered by Sky in the Grass 5
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I would hope that any God, whether traditional or "love" would frown on deceit and hurting people
2007-01-12 17:02:24
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answered by Anonymous
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