I am a really sweet guy. (i know that sounds show-offy but its true) I treat girls right and care for them and am there for them when they need me, and it has come back to bite me in the butt time after time. See, once i get close enough, every girl so far has said im more like a brother and it would be wierd dating me... I first thought it was my looks turning them away, but many girls tell me im cute... Then i thought it was my personality... but then many MORE girls tell me im "the most awesome guy ever!"
I am currently madly and i mean HEAD OVER HEELS in love with a girl, but she says im more like a brother. how can I get her to give me a chance as a boyfriend?
2007-01-12 16:28:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You seem to start out as friends/brother--don't. Like starting last at the Indy 500--and a lap down.
You have about a 5% chance of pulling off the switch. When you talk to this girl from now on don't talk to her about things that she would also talk about with her girlfriends or her family. Talking about past relationships and friends is boring and won't score you any points. The trick is to get her to fall for you before you say or do anything serious with her--if you push it she'll bolt. You have to be really super patient and endure whatever she tosses your way--most guys can't wait for their female friends that they want to be lovers with to adjust and blow it.
Plus don't tell her about all the stupid-dumb-crazy stuff you did in the past. And keep away from her for about a month or so. Might call her once or twice to let her know that nothing is wrong--you're just giving her some space for a bit.
2007-01-12 17:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a guy friend who's the same way. You "big brother" types always bother the hell out of me since you guys don't notice the ones that DO NOT see you as "lovers". I have no advice to you, be romantic as you want- chances are you are head over heels in love with the girl that will use you and throw you away.
But there will be one simple advice, tell her. My friend never tried this, but this might work. Give her subtle hints, not ridiculous romantics. You may try them, but I'm not sure if it'll work. Past viewing experiance tells me it doesnt
2007-01-12 16:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
However assholeish this sounds, I've found that when you ignore a girl or a guy (a guy in my case, girl in yours), they seem to be coming back to you within weeks to months like falling for you. It works like a charm. Try it :-)
Give her some time, let her be with a few idiots, and she'll want to come to you. Good luck! ;-)
2007-01-12 16:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No particularly the completed certainty. Kevin did have the intercourse exchange, yet Nick and Joe did not have it yet. they are nonetheless women, however the psychologist mentioned that they could stay as boys for a whole 12 months and then initiate hormone treatment.
2016-12-16 03:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out!!! show her there's more to you than being "brotherly". some girls don't see a potential romance until you have been alone with her. that's how i am :) good luck! and if you really are as sweet as you say, she'll change her mind about you pretty soon, brother!
2007-01-12 16:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by unicorn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you're looked at as a brother its kind of hard to get looked at as a bofriend.
2007-01-12 16:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stop being just a "nice" guy and be a guy that is in control, confident, carries himself well, well groomed, and is cocky funny.
2007-01-12 16:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋