Woman just broke up with abusive bf, HIS father is on HER side, letting her and the baby stay at his (grandpa"s) home. What are your opinions on any possible relationship between her (34) and him (50)...assume that they are otherwise perfectly matched for eachother.
2007-01-12 16:23:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kinda an akward situation and is messed up for the son and the grandson because his grandpa is dating his mom which means his dad is his brother. Can't help who you love I guess, but thats just messed up! lol
2007-01-12 16:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, the father is part of what produced the abusive son. Crazy doesn't pop up out of nowhere.
Why is he interested in this woman's cause? Because he wants to play knight in shining armor and have her for himself? Because he resents his son and wants to hurt him?
Whatever his intentions, he saddles the woman with a debt of gratitude and stabs his son in the back. Whether the son deserves to get stabbed is irrelevant; decent people don't do that to each-other.
Letting the woman stay at his house is a kind and reasonable gesture, but it would be pretty freaky, not to mention unethical, for him to put the moves on her.
2007-01-12 16:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're appropriate that his strikes along with his ex are relatively beside the point!!!! IF he relatively loves you and respects you, he does not be attempting to spend plenty time with or consult with this woman. He does not be asking her for photographs like that and does not be attempting to connect up along with her and donning on communication along with her the way he does. sometimes ultimatums do not paintings; i could propose sitting down and explaining to him precisely the place you're coming from and the rigidity that that's having on your relationship and your have confidence. rigidity the certainty which you adore him and purely him and could never shop on with yet another guy the way that he does along with her. be careful to not element the finger at him, yet as a exchange attempt a place reversal of how he could experience in case you have been doing a similar and felt a similar approximately yet another guy. enable him be responsive to which you does not choose him to shrink friendships with every physique however the form of "friendship" that they've is merely too intimate on greater levels than it may be. provide him of challenge to enable it sink in, yet while he incorporates on the way he's along with her...you and him won't in any respect have a truthful and sturdy relationship. His strikes will slowly consume at you until you won't be able to take it anymore.
2016-10-19 22:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may not be wrong but it will cause trouble down the road
for everyone concerned. she may need to find somewhere
else to live because this will cause problem for the father
and son. even if he abusive to her, she should get out but
she need to leave all this behind her.
2007-01-12 16:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really know that is what the deal is between them? Maybe he feels bad for her and want tomake sure that his grandchild has a roof over his head.
2007-01-12 16:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little bit creepy. If they get married, the child's step father is also his grandfather.
2007-01-12 16:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by shallybles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a little creepy. But if thats what she wants to do then thats ok
2007-01-12 16:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by rosebabi478 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is immoral.
2007-01-12 16:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by mira m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋