okay so im not straight....and i like my bestfriend....we are really close and i mean he is really nice most of the time but he doesnt like to acknowledge me as his best friend in public and he makes fun of me and stuff......we have also done some stuff...well i did it to him and he let me.....and well wen we're alone he is the sweetest nicest guy in the planet.....but now he has a gf and i dont know wat to do...i mean im really close with this girl atnd they've like each other for like 2 yrs....so wat do?
2007-01-12 16:21:26 · 10 answers · asked by Gamerz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he used you.. betta 4get bout him and get goin with yur life.
2007-01-12 16:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by jaison_healer18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You are describing a whole host of issues, and I would say leave your "friend".
First, no friend refuses to acknowledge you in public or makes fun of you...all the while letting you "do" him while he sits back and gets his jollies. What a hypocrit!
He isn't straight either, but based on the way he's used and abused you, he certainly isn't willing to admit that, is he?
The girl is most likely a beard. He's putting on a huge front....mostly because he's still in denial.
Don't let him treat you this way. I think homosexuality is wrong, and a risky, destructive lifestyle....so I'm not condoning what you do, but I wouldn't advise anyone to stay in a "friendship" like the one you describe.
Gay or straight, find friends who truly accept and love you for who you are. Let this loser go!
2007-01-12 16:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by CassandraM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am straight as hell married with kids But I say your friend is a closet case. If he's bi then fine but to dirt you in public I say **** him give him a choice. Stand up for yourself being gay doesnt mean being weak. If not find someone who appriciates you. Good luck.
STOP THE HATE!
2007-01-12 16:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by quick8stang29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, you need to move on, and fast. This doofus "lets" you do stuff to him in private, and you hang around in public to be his whipping boy. Now what's not to like.....NOT.
Dump him, and move on....unless you are into S&M.
2007-01-12 16:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by Too Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-01-12 16:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by mariam_blah2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break the friendship. It is wierd.
2007-01-12 16:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by mira m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice.....GO TO CHURCH AND ASK THE LORD FOR FORGIVENESS!!!!!!!!! GET SAVED!!! LEAVE THE YOUNG MAN ALONE AND FIND YOURSELF A WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-12 16:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Krishy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe have u told your bestfriends girlfriend maybe if she knew she would back off
2007-01-12 16:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them have their fling and then go for him :)
2007-01-12 16:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋