we never utter a word whenever we meet on road.we even does not no each others name but we live in same locality.i am 36 now and she may be 30 - 32.thogh she was frequent on the road passing by my shop daily before but her visit gradualy decreased and now 2 or 3 times.now she goes to the market by the other side of the road ignoring the previous path.in last month i met her but one one occasion she hide herself and on other she caught a conveynce and gone away while her house is just a minute away from the spot.
can any one tell what possible things did she have in her mind.what shall i do.i am depressed and frustrated.help me
2007-01-12 15:53:15 · 12 answers · asked by amar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey man if you have not even talked to each other how are you sure that she is available. She may have been crossing your shop frequently because it could have been the way to market/office etc and that does not mean that she had the hots for you. I agree with one of the answerer that if she was interested in you she would have surely approached you as you had no guts to open up your feeling for her. May be this is flowing in her mind... why should i fall for a coward.
I leave it to your imagination as to what she is thinking because you seem to live in an illusion.
SORRY if i have hurt your feeling but its the whole truth. In case you find out that she is still unattached i suggest meet her and ask her if she is interested in getting married to you.... Good luck buddy
2007-01-12 16:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sudden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she may be wondering what in the world is on YOUR mind. You love a girl from afar for nine long, wasted years. You don't tell her, but apparently you "stalk" her just a little....
Maybe she's steering clear because she's grown wary of you. I wouldn't trust someone who couldn't tell me openly how they feel about me.......
Maybe you should consider seeking professional help. That's alotta life to waste just admiring somebody from a distance. And apparently, she has become aware of your distant attentions, or she wouldn't be so obviously avoiding you now. Something really doesn't sound right here.....
2007-01-12 16:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by CassandraM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 yrs & u never expressed ur love? c'mmon...u gotta b kiddin...i think u shud go for an arranged marriage seems like love is not ur thing coz u won get ur lady love if u juz sit on a couch n keep dreamin abt her...u r already 36 don't u think ur wastin ur precious life on someone who doesnt even know who u r n probably has her bf by this time...life's too short to waste time like this dude...u better get married n 4get abt this GIRL!
2007-01-12 18:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should be so many things in mind....first of all...may be she has someone in life now...or she understands u a wrong person coz u used to look her...sometimes girls think like this..anyways...i would like to suggest u..just go to he and say whts in ur mind...coz without saying u cant do anything..nd trust me in the case of love...we should never postpone our decesions...ur 36 now nd u will not get any girl easily now for marry.....so be practical..go to her...say tht u want to merry her...if she say yes..then ok...f she says no....then try to find a girl with the help of ur family nd merry....ok....coz trust me life is really incomplete without a lifepartner
go ahead...best of luck
2007-01-12 16:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by Yours Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 9 years, I think you should speak to her. Offer to carry something for her. Or just talk about the weather. I think you are ready. It may be bold, but I would ask her if she were married. If she says no, tell her she will be soon.
2007-01-12 15:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by tbonz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have wasted 9 years that you could have spent with her all because you couldn't take 5 minutes to tell her how you feel. dont waste another 9 years, just tell her how you feel, ask her out...accept her answer and if need be move on
2007-01-12 16:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by aprilfools1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to read this article http://www.healthadel.com/articles/9/1/Depression-Treatments/Page1.html i found will be useful also has info on different treatments.
2007-01-16 10:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by Tom l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to consult some psychiatrist for your treatment.
2007-01-12 15:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by NUPAKRY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is single then let her know if not look elsewhere.
2007-01-12 16:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really she missed you. first, you can tell your love to her while she ignore please leave she only missed you. LOVE a girl, who loves you and do any thing for you. please dont waste time for her
2007-01-12 16:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by sudha m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋