But my mind is saying that now isn't the right time because of certain circumstances in my life (waiting until next year would be better). I was wondering of any other moms have felt that they wanted another child so badly but knew that it wouldn't be such a smart idea at the time.
2007-01-12 15:46:34 · 11 answers · asked by Easter Bunny 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I am not pregnant right now, but I want to be LOL.
2007-01-12 16:24:25 · update #1
I'm with you there. My son is 8, and I'm kind of anxious because he'll be older and I don't want to have a 15 year old and a 1 month old, it seems crazy to me. But I'm still in school, I go PT so it takes FOR EVER lol. Plus I just am not sure, I mean money wise Im sure we can handle but I don't know. Although I was on an antibiotic, and we kind of disregarded that and the effectiveness of the pill and all that, so I guess in a few weeks I'll know.
2007-01-12 15:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by Brandnewshoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always heard that if you wait until you can afford to have a baby, you'll never have one. I believe it. Whether it's money or other circumstances, they'll always be something that makes next year better than this one. And another saying IF YOU DON'T USE IT, YOU LOSE IT! I also believe that holds true for your fertility. My advice is follow your heart! May you be blessed with as many babies as your heart desires!
2007-01-12 17:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Psalm91 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a two and a half year old and a 15 month old... I know I want another one, but can't talk my husband into it. I just know in my heart I am not done. Right now, not the best time, but not sure that even next year would be any different for me either...
wait till you know it's best, it will be better for you and your family.
2007-01-12 17:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a lot of love to give a new baby now. Can you do what your heart wants and still be okay in life? Sometimes when the baby come unexpectedly, it works out for itself, could this be the case? It would be great if you could follow your heart and give a baby all this love you have now.
2007-01-12 15:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by amy23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing- The way I see it is we are truly never "ready" to have a baby. Even if you have kids already, as mothers we worry about the what-if's - I go to (or want to go) school, Do We have enough money, etc.
Babies are blessings we may not realize at first. As parents we are very strong and can handle just about anything that comes are way!
2007-01-12 16:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 02:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I want a third child, but I know that now would not be a good time. But, that still does not stop me from wanting a third child.
2007-01-12 16:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by SAMMY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So does mine but my body says NO!!!! SO I'll wait....lol
If there is any doubt please wait, you will know or it will happen. Good Luck....set goals towards it now though so when it happens you will be happier and ready!
2007-01-12 16:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
often the heart and the mind are not in sinc.
2007-01-12 17:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same here, terrible timing. but life comes at you...gotta take it as a blessing.
2007-01-12 15:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Laurellamags 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋