Like I noticed that my current bf who is white he is so caring and sweet and he would like do anything for me (I dont ask for much cause im a sweet girl) I really love him. My Ex, Ex bf who was black he was controlling and like didnt really respect me. I dont know if its my personality, because im kinda shy and Im sort of too nice to people and i cant help it so i dont know if he was just taking advantage of me. So i want to know from you guys if you think or find that white guys are more compassionate and caring then black guys?
2007-01-12 15:01:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My bf even told me that he doesnt even care if I weight till im married to have sex. And that is great cause my past boyfriend who was black was like how thats stupid and he wouldnt respect that i wanted to wait.
2007-01-12 15:03:41 · update #1
And for the record im biracial. My mother is Irish and canadian. My father is Jamacian.
2007-01-12 15:07:35 · update #2
race has nothin to do w/ the way a person acts or how much they care
2007-01-12 15:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by <3_*~kiLLeR_kiSsEr~*_<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ! It's not about the" race" for one! It's about the person you are with! It has nothing to do with the color of the person! All people are different, there is good and bad in every race, so it doesn't matter about thier color or race! Your ex was just a bad guy for you and that does not mean that ALL Black Guys are Like Him in anyway !! Not ALL WHITE Men are GOOD either!!! There is alot of them out there DIVORCED TOO !! You can;t judge or compare one race or color to another because every one is different and everyone feels different about things. I 'm sure there are alot of Black men out there that are very good to there wifes and compassionate and caring just like your white man!! Any man can FOOL you TOO by being nice !!!
2007-01-12 15:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymomma46 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. I was in a relationship with a black guy for over 4 years. He was very compassionate and caring. He was one of the sweetest boyfriends I ever had.
Everyone is different, and it does not mean that just because he is black he is insensitive and controlling.
2007-01-12 15:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by honestly sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The color of someones skin has nothing to do with the way they treat you. You past boyfriend who was black was just a mean guy it seems. Just because he was mean to you does not mean that all black men would be mean to you. Each individual person is different from another.
2007-01-12 15:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by winterstorm23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that depends more on the person than on the race. I know a lot of black guys that seem so sweet and white guys that are big time jerks. It just depends. =) So my answer would be, no. I don't think that's true.
2007-01-12 15:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly No, I don't. I have met very decent black men, who will treat a woman with respect. And I have met some very mean and hurtful white men. It just depends on how the person was raised.
2007-01-12 15:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by yweller25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most definatly african american people are more controlling and they cheat alot they play around with girls and dont want to wait they are insensitive so all im saying its really hard to find a african american who is really caring . but the white guys are really nice and sensitive dont cheat alot and like to wait but im not saying all are like that some can be players too so you gotta be really carefull of which kinda guys you date
hope i helped good luck
2007-01-12 15:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by LoVeR** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont kno who is more compassionate. but i can tell u 1 thing, there are more white guys (in numbers) who would treat a girl with respect than there are of black guys
2007-01-12 15:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by Judah[[S.P.]] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can not paint a box around one or the other. some people are more caring than others independent of all other factors. color is not the reason someone is caring or not. place of birth is not a factor, birth place, language they speak. Someone cares because that's who they are. hope that helps
2007-01-12 15:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by j m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you white or black? I don't think race has anything to do with it.
2007-01-12 15:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋