both my husband(been married 6 mons)and i each have your own myspace accounts.i went into his(he goes into mine)account and saw a private message from a old gf that said "i know you,i know you well" i know she is still single and local and the fact that my husband is married will not stop her fron comming after him.they have a very long history together to long to explain.it just sounds like shes trying to stir up old emotions in my husband.
2007-01-12 14:54:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Confront him and stop being so insecure. Good luck.
2007-01-12 14:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by DRP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right. People make the mistake of thinking that once they are married, that's it and everyone else is locked out but the other person is thinking that she can weasel her way back in and that a marriage can always be ended. Sounds like you married too young because you shouldn't be reading each others my space pages (why not just get rid of them ?)--it just shows you are both insecure. My advice to you is to not make a big deal about it. You can't control what she does and if he is going to cheat, he is going to cheat. Hammering him about it will only make the situation worse and make him feel trapped. If he really loves you then he will cut her off himself. If he doesn't do it on his own then you've got problems. If he tells you that they are just friends or that he doesn't want to be rude to her then he's playing mind games with you. People understand what marriage is supposed to be.
2007-01-12 23:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Carman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. You stated that you both go into each others my space, so obviously there is nothing to hide. Ask what he thinks she means by that. The other thing is do you trust your husband? If so then most likely there is nothing to worry about. I not, I feel for you. But the best thing to do is be open with your feelings with him. That is the only way you can have a good marriage that lasts for a long time. There is always going to be someone there trying to catch his attention or your attention. Just be honest with each other about it, don't try and hide it. Now for his x, she wants what she can't have.
2007-01-12 23:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by jd77aets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are married to him, apparently he choose you. They didn't make it togeather. You know actually this man and I were togeather, but when we weren't . He was the best friend I ever had. Do I have feelings towards him yes. But as family, and yes we went through a lot togeather, and will alwasys be the best of friends. If you are worried about something ask her what her intentions are, is she being a friend or trying to mess with your life and your husbands. If she can't look at you and say he is my friend, then tell her where to get off.
2007-01-12 23:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by CHEROKEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your his wife and she's his ex...that says a lot right there. If your husband doesnt give into the silly ex games then neither should you. More than likely she wants to stir up some conflict between the both of you, but a pest cant pester you if your just ignore it. When you give in, she wins...just let it be!
Good luck!
2007-01-12 23:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by ♣Chronickandy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be. There's no way of knowing from just the information you gave now. But you've got to keep your eye on that situation. Old girlfriends with long histories never go away easy.
2007-01-12 22:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by stevejensen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a leach and your husband should change his myspace account all around, or block her Or you to share one. Make it noticeable you are on it. Your marriage is fresh and this is just one of those little things that make you wonder if he is true. Don't fall for it.
2007-01-12 23:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by fabulosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women get their kicks trying to lure married men into trouble.
Tell your hubby what you saw and how it made you feel and then put it out of both of your minds.
She is trash.
2007-01-12 23:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by Fuzzy Wuzzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to cause doubt and friction between you and your husband so she can move in - don't fall for it - she's a pig - which is why your husband had the good sense to marry you and not her.
2007-01-12 23:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by scottyusa1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it is not important what she wants and what she means, but all important is--what you want; why do you allow your insecurities to take over? Remember, he married you, not her, he loves you! Don't dwell on the negatives and/or obstacles to your happiness (ex is in this category). I believe that we create our own reality; try to create the best you can consciously--when not sure, affirm--I am loving, loved, safe and secure, for example, until you'll can restore your peace of mind and repair your self-esteem, believe it and eventually your affirmations will become your truth. Good luck.
2007-01-12 23:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if this messaging persiss anymore go talk to her she shouldn't be talking to him and stirring up old emotions but it is also his job too he needs to tell her so maybe you could log on his pretend to be him then delte items in your sent folder or you could talk to your husband.
2007-01-14 12:38:02 · answer #11 · answered by M.C.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋