i have been dating my boyfriend for two and a half months and we havent even held hands or kissed...whats up?? i need to know whats goin on!!
2007-01-12 14:25:03 · 9 answers · asked by K-Rad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you make the first move
2007-01-12 14:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by megan p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a move he is too shy! Live life to the fullest just grab him and kiss him let the passion fly! What have you got to lose? If both of you just lay back waiting for the move maker no one will get anywhere. I'm sure he is just as anxious as you and would love it if you walked up to him and just let your love for him run wild all over him! Make him want you! Be passionate just like you imagined yourself acting towards a boy before you and him were together. The fun factor in a relationship is new and exciting things! Create them and don't worry about him rejecting you, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger anyways. :) Good luck and make a move.
2007-01-12 22:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't want you to feel like he's trying to rush things-- he's just trying to be a gentleman.... you will have to make the first move-- after that, he will know that you're comfortable with holding hands and kissing and he will begin to make moves on you
2007-01-12 22:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by Likwid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf was the same way2 lol
it turns out he was just extremly shY!!!
i made the first move after two weeks of dating. b4 he droped me off at my house, i turned and looked at him, and say "So, am i gonna get a good night kiss tonight??"
and he was like wow you want me too
it was a really sweet BAD kiss lol
but the point is, he was SHY...
i say you make the first move :)
good luck
2007-01-12 22:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ms.peREz?♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy for two and a half months and he turned out gay..
2007-01-12 22:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is he shy. or maybe you should grab his hand or so. but that is kindua wierd. Maybe he is waiting for you to make the first move.
Jen
2007-01-12 22:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by **[[Jen]]** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make the first move
2007-01-12 22:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by cwb63ss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend to grab his hand across the road when your running or something then maybe he will hold on to it :)
2007-01-12 22:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just too shy.
or maybe he thinks you dont like him.
or maybe he doesnt like you.
or maybe he doesnt want to yet.
or maybe he doesnt know how.
(you could be his first kiss?)
haha i have no clue!
2007-01-12 22:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋