OK. so I like this guy& he pretty much hates me. The 8th grade dance is coming up& I have no one to go with, & i think he mite not either. He's so popular & has SO MANY friends that are girls! I don't know if he's going out w/ one of those girls or not; he's really flirtatious w/ all of them. He seems really mean to those of us who aren't as popular as he, & there seems to be NO way to get him 2 like me; he hates me so much he won't even look at me- he avoids me too much! I really like him & ive tried to take my mind off of him...i was going out w/ this guy to set my mind on going after spmbody else, but it didn't work out. One of my friends is friends with him & he seems to like her & she knows it but doesn't like him back & agrees that it's mean how he ignores me. He's preppy& im not- ppl cal me "EMo/goth"- how gay is that?
Anyway, I don't want to be a prep& i really luv thius guy, & I want 2c if he would like me better as a prep but i feel like im betraying my friends if i do...
2007-01-12 14:20:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look for some one else to go for he doesn't like you so don't waste your time on him
2007-01-12 14:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by megan p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to move on and stop thinking about him. He obviously is not worth the your time and effort you spend thinking about him if he ignores you and hates you. Don't change who you are for someone else. If they do not like you the way you are then they are not the right person for you! Look at it this way and with this attitude "he does not even have a clue as to what he is missing". If you think and act like that who knows, he may wonder why you do not seem to like him anymore and he may come after you. But forsure do not try to be something you aren't. There are so many fish in the sea...Wow, 8th grade huh? I remember those dances and those days of crushes on boys. Just wait until high school, it only gets better! Good luck and you should find someone else to go with you to the dance. Don't even worry about him (I know easier said than done, been there done that...lol) Take care!
2007-01-12 22:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by MG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are honestly thinking of changing who you are in order to impress some guy who treats you like sh!t?
Thats ridiculous! He sounds like a right tosser anyway, why would you want him? Because he is good looking and popular? Open your eyes and mind a little and check out all of the other guys at school, there are probably 100 cute, interesting, fun and nice guys who you will like and enjoy being with much more so than Mr Preppy, go with them. Mr Preppy will only treat you like crap, hurt and humiliate you and you will only have yourself to blame!
2007-01-12 22:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lulu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Naw, **** dat--- don't change for nobody! Just walk up to him and talk to him.... ask him if he wants to go to the dance with you. The worst thing that can happen is that he says no--- and if he does, then at least you know how he really feels and you'll probably be able to get over him easier
2007-01-12 22:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Likwid 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if a guy doesnt like you for you then hes not worth your time anyway
2007-01-12 22:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by hoplessly_in_love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol..dun make it look as if you desperately need him..lol..or he'll be more arrogant..go with another guy to prove that you dun really need him..to make him feel pain.
2007-01-12 22:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by Remus L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋