I hate my brother!?

Question

I hate my brother, and he hates me! Ok, well my brother is my twin. The only reason i hate him is because he makes fun of me, and he acts like its a crime to be near me when he is with friends. He also goes onto my IM and talks to my best friends and is super mean to them! He just loves ruining my life! I really hate my brother, as much as i would love to fight, i dont want to set a bad example for my baby brother. Last time time i faught with my brother we had such a big fight my baby brother started crying! Now everytime my prents are arguing my baby brother starts to cry. My brother finds ways to ruin my life. He has dated 4 of my best friends, Just to make me mad! I hate him so much! But i have to live with him! What are some ways i can ignore him?

Answer 1

lock ur door and change ur IM password

Answer 2

Fraternal twins can be tough. Assuming all other things are normal, you should know that in a few years you two will likely be best friends. It's just very difficult being teenagers and fraternal twins. It's not the same thing as being identical. You are reacting to his actions as a teenager. Imagine what this might look like from an adults point of view. Making fun of you? Talking to people on your IM? It's supremely annoying I know, but you should know this is fairly benign activity. Laugh back at him when he makes fun of you, look at him like he's crazy and show him to be the far more immature person of you two. Worst case, threaten to blurt out something of embarrassment to him the next time he does that (if that kind of thing exists). And I sort of hesitate to suggest that because that is actually a more mean-spirited thing to do than what he is doing.

Answer 3

I'm sorry to tell you this but this pretty normal for brothers and sisters I have 4 brothers and one sister and all of us are about a year apart. Let me give you an example If you knew your brother was really I mean really going to get hurt in some way what would you do and don't think for one minute you would do nothing because you would You just hate him right know but if you thought he was in serious trouble you would probably be the first to help him.

Answer 4

Hello. How old are you? I am 21, My parents had 5 kids, and also two step kids. My youngest brother and sister are twins. They are now 18 and very close friends. But when they were in middle school and high school, they THOUGHT they hated each other. They used to try to get each other in trouble with my parents, they wouldn't even LOOK at each other in school, and my brother used to make fun of my sister ALL the time, calling her fat and ugly (which she is NOT, but she didn't know that). My sister and i both just ignored him when he got in his way. We wouldn't let any of his comments or cruel jokes effect us. We would just ignore him, and TRY to let him know that we didn't care if he called my sister fat, because WE knew that she wasn't. At first he escalated his behavior, but eventually (after like 2 years) he stopped. They found a common ground and now love each other to death. I think you are going to have to ignore him the best you can, don't let his antics effect you. It will probably take a long time until he matures, but hopefully in a few years you guys will be very close. I hope this helps, i know every two siblings get along differently, but hopefully after ignoring his intolerable behavior he will grow up.

Also.. maybe try playing games with him. Either cards, or maybe video games. My little brother and sister still love to play with each other, and it helps set the anger aside for a bit.

Answer 5

try talking to him. he's your twin, you 2 should have something in common. try to find something that you two like and do it together. if you don't have anything in common, try simply talking to him. but don't ignore him. because you are a family, and you're meant to live together. instead of causing a problem, try to resolve this. maybe you have done somthing to him that made him really mad or sad, so this is how he is repaying you. remember, not everyone expresses their feelings the same way. and to your baby brother, take him somewhere else when somebody's having an arguement. its ok... these things happen. believe me, in the future, you two will laugh at the way you were acting with each other. :)

Answer 6

Show your maturity and no matter what he does or what he says - give him back a smile. The harder he tries to hurt you - just give him back a smile. Your little brother will learn that when you face a problem or down right evil - you handle yourself with total class by smiling your way though the situation. Sooner or later your twin will stop bothering you because he can't get a negative response out of you.

Answer 7

in case you truly ought to like him to regulate, plus you truly ought to wish to have a best brotherly relationship with him, truly of resenting him for the incorrect way he's, why not discover out in simple terms why it truly is he's the incorrect way he's. i'm confident he did not plan on transforming into a failure at the same time as he replaced into only a baby. There are causes behind his alternatives. he's out of control. by technique of you resenting him, in simple terms keeps him better out of control and rebelling. do not ignore, as you factor an acusing finger at him, there are 3 others pointing proper again at you. he's now unlikely to regulate until eventually he has a best reason to finish that. Why not provide him a postive one!?

Answer 8

Honestly, do you HATE your brother? Sounds like he gets on your nerves a bit, but I'm sure deep down inside you still love him. How old are you guys? Try talking to him and telling him that you guys are too old for the ol' twin rivalry thing. Have a truce.

Answer 9

Ignoring your brother is not nearly as fun as beating him into submission (if you're larger) or making his life miserable through pranks. I suggest shoving a dessert into his face, making sure to choose the dessert of the squishiest consistency. (e.g. chocolate moose). This doubles as a stress reliever.

Answer 10

I have a brother that does the same hits me says he hates me but i care for him,i`m sure u don`t hate him i mean this is just a example:Say if he was to die i`m sure you would cry no matter how much you say you wouldn`t.Get even. if he has any guy freinds date them.get him bak.

Answer 11

I have the same problem as you.But my classmates make fun of me.I do feel exactly like you and I feel like I want to die.I get nervous to tell anybody which is something I really need to fix.If I were you,I would tell somebody.