Wanting some male input?

Question

I'm female and have a friend who is male, although we've never dated, we have "made out" etc... Question...if I ask him to hang out, if he has the time he says yes, he takes all my phone calls and answers all my emails. However...He is rarely the one to initiates contact with me.

Does it mean he's not that in to me?

Because I would think if he's not that into me, he wouldn't take all my calls, answer emails etc....

Thanks guys!!

Answer 1

My view is the same as yours.

I have had so many ("supposed?") women who CLAIMED they were interested, I never expected them to make phone calls, just to return a call within a FEW DAYS. And they never did.

And eventually I stopped calling these people, because one out of a hundred times they would actually answer and be willing to talk, they would tell me for an hour how great a guy I was, and then I wouldn't hear from them again for another 6 months. Not fun.

Talk to him. He probably just doesn't want to APPEAR too eager. But I think he likes you.

Answer 2

"Wanting some male input"

I never heard it put quite that way before. I like it.

Anyhoo...

Well, ...

It's hard to say, innit?

Let's see... Everything seems A.O.K. You want to talk to him, you call him, and he's there for you. You want to mail him, he gets the mail and responds to you. That sounds pretty good.

However, he never initiates? Ever?

There could be a million reasons. Maybe he's taking it slow. Maybe he feels he'd be intrusive. Maybe he's got another gf and can only handle so much traffic. Maybe he's just super busy with whatever he does.

I used to be in a relationship with someone who often initiated contact. I always got back to her. Maybe I didn't initiate as much, but I really liked her. We had a good relationship. I just initiated different things than she did. I was more into initiating things to do

Answer 3

He doesn't initiate contact because he doesn't have too. You do that all the time.
Quit calling him and emailing him for a while and see if he contacts you. If he does, great. If he doesn't, then you should be searching for someone else anyway. Unless of course, you just like having casual sex with the guy. Guys will have casual sex with a girl they find attractive, even though they have no romantic interest in her.

Answer 4

People are different. Just because I'm male doesn't mean I understand your friend's behavior.
However, to answer your question, if he didn't like you very much, I doubt he would take your calls or answer your emails.
Like another answerer said, I think you should ask him for the real answer. I hope your situation works out.

God bless.

Answer 5

Try not contacting him and see what happens. I have a friend who was in the same situation. Then she started to date a guy she really liked and was dreading having to "break off" what they never really had, but he never called her back or anything. So I'de try not contacting him and see what happens.

Answer 6

Maybe this guy is just timid and is wondering the same question of " i wonder if she likes me back". sometimes the best way to go is to just tell the person how you feel. If that is done, you know where you two stand with each other.

Answer 7

Sounds like you are messing around with a little boy. Then how old are you???? My gosh girls these days are soooooooooo aggressive. Men in this country are becoming women and women are becoming men. This is scary!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

Well just by reading what you put I really think that he does like you & well ya guys just don't make out with anyone you know!!!! Well good luck!!!!!

lilwahines2006

Answer 9

well maybe he just likes the hooking up but doesnt want to date you, depends if your around him and his friends or not, if not he doesnt like you if yes then he does

Answer 10

maybe he just shy.or confused. but in anycase. be honest with yourself go ask him whats up so that at least you tried and have no regrets.