heres the thing. when i meet people and even my friends i always lower my self to what ever level they are on. I even do stuff i don't much care for. if there is a dork at the party i will talk to him, just cause i feel bad for the guy or girl. I do a lot of things i would not normally do, not to please other but cause i think it is the right thing to do. I have no problem because I do it cause i have the Cofidence to do it.
Here is the problem, Now girls in the group and i assume others think i have no back bone, and probably think i have no cofidence. and i belive they have a lower opinion of me. I really don't care, but I do need a girlfriend. do i have to be a jerk so girls like me or can i really just be myself and be cool with everyone and i will find a girl that likes me?
2007-01-12 14:11:05 · 2 answers · asked by The Brown Bomber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself!! You've been doing wonderful, one day a mature girl will appreciate this and makes you really really happy.
2007-01-12 14:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have to be a jerk. When you find a girl, she's gonna be a good one! Good luck.
2007-01-12 22:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by linka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋