I asked my crush out 2 months ago.... he said he didnt know cause we really havent talked. But we still dont know eachother. I dont know if he is busy and most of the time i see him is with his friends. He often lookes at me then lookes at something else the looks at me again, ect. We go to school together but next year he's goin' to high school. What should i do? I need help. I want to kiss him really bad to just know what it feels like. A lot of people says i should but the problame is that i dont know if he likes me. Do you think he does? i want to ask him to make sometimme to get to know each other but im to shy to. How would i say it? Oh by the way his name is Joseph.
2007-01-12 14:07:07 · 16 answers · asked by Green With Envy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From this side of high school it is easy to say you can work out a time where you can get him alone and then tell him that - would he mind kissing you, it's really been on your mind. That's all, nothing else (you can see what happens from there) - kiss him, thank him, and walk away.
If he is not making time to get to know you he might not be into you, but few men miss the chance for a free kiss. You might kiss him and totally lose interest (as lot of cute boys are really no big thrill in that department at that age) or he might gain interest in you by your courage and coolness, if you do it right. Never hurts to try. I know in high school it can seem like a great big deal, but it is easy for a girl to shrug her shoulder and say "I just wanted to try it".
Peace!
2007-01-12 14:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I call a relationship-potential issue. That is, you are asking about the potential for having a relationship with a specific person. The answer to questions like that is difficult because you can't control how the other person is going to react to you. So, all you can really do is be the best person you can, be yourself, be honest with yourself and true to yourself and honor yourself by those you choose to be with. So, if you make some kind of moves on him and he doesn't respond the way you would like, take it in stride and keep looking. I realize that right now he is more important than others...and if you really want a response from him, you're going to have to talk to him and tell him you want to see him. Remember, the worst he can do is say "no" and that puts you right where you are now. But if he says "yes", you're where you want to be. So ask him. The worst isn't that bad and the best is waiting for you.
2007-01-12 22:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way you say he looks at you and then looks away real fast suggests he's interested in you but is shy also. If you are to afraid to go up to him in person why don't you write him a note telling him how you feel. You have to find out his feelings for you before you can ask for a kiss.
2007-01-12 22:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just get up the courage to ask him if he is willing to make time to get to know you. Or if he is one of those people who if he is hanging out with his friends he is more shy around girls I would just try to call him an talk to him on the phone or see if he will call you. It may be akward but then there would be no distractions for you guys to not talk. Good luck
Hope
2007-01-12 22:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by Koolaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I was still playing with my maple town figures at 13 years. Then all the boys I knew were stink pubescent adolesence (sooooo imature on top of that). Then again that was 1993, I think you guys are going too fast this day in age.
2007-01-12 22:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
compliment him but dont over do it. flirt with him alot. just start talking to him. ask for his number if you havent already and call him sometime. look in his eyes occasionally. after you have talked to him for a while, tell him how much you enjoy talking to him. eventually tell him you really like him and ask him if he feels the same way. if you feel asking him in person is too nerve wrecking, just do it over the phone or have a friend tell him for you. however, asking him in person would probably be best. best wishes.
2007-01-12 22:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by <3_*~kiLLeR_kiSsEr~*_<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know him... it seems pretty important. Find some ways to talk to him, like on the internet.
2007-01-12 22:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by T. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldnt waste time, so i would just straight up ask him...
Joseph i like you and you act like you like me, so i just want to know do you??? If not i understand!!!
If he says yes...there ya go...
If he say no just say ok and walk away!!!!
2007-01-12 22:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by Dance♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you made the first move already. you could ask him out again, but i think it's best to wait till he comes to you. you already let him know you liked him, now is his turn to make a move.
2007-01-12 22:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him, tell him what you think about him (not what you feel, at least not yet) , just try not to sound pushy or desperate. Best Wishes!
2007-01-12 22:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by Stella d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋