Teenager,stress..confusion?

Question

I am 17 years old and I take care of my grandmother with alzheimers. my grandfather lives in the same house as me and my sister and grandma.My parents live abroad and they have left me and my sis here in the states. I never had the option of work or no work and
my aunt hired me at her office..I cannot say no.. I am homeschooled where I have to submit my work every two weeks..

My head often hurts and I get these sensations like as if i am scared and my heart just starts to beat fast and fast..and slows down again...

I don't know how to handle a couple of things..I have too many responsibilities and I cannot manage my school work..

Should I go to a doctor?

Answer 1

Do you HAVE TO work for your aunt? It's unfair of her to expect you to do school work and help take care of your grandparents. I think you are stressed out because you are becoming your own person. Your family is going to have to face the fact that as you get older, you are going to want to do some things that they don't want you to do. Times are going to get tough as they pressure you to be a good little girl like you've always been. But, it is natural for you to want to break free. Everyone does. Good luck.

Answer 2

You should see a doctor, it sounds like you're having panic attacks. You have way too much pressure on you for someone of your age. YOu can say no to your aunt, she'll understand if you explain to her why you have refused. you have the right to live happily, to feel calm and safe, you need to regain control, seeing a doctor will help you. good luck.

Answer 3

just be straightforword with people, sometimes the truth hurts, but hey, if they loved you they'd understand. I also reccomend going to a nursing home and asking how to care better for people with alzheimers. That should take a little weight off your shoulders.

hope this helps! :)

Answer 4

Yes you should as well as making sure you are eating well. Diet can have big effects on the body & mind.

Answer 5

see a doc soon.