like i got personal with a guy and it kinda lighted an old flame that i had had for him and i told him and he ignored me for the longest time but now all of a sudden he is like all over me did he just need a few days to process the info or what i was a little confused cuz hes acting like nothing happend
2007-01-12 13:51:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Little girl, what do you mean with: He ignored you for the longest time..how long it was?..3 years or 3 days?.
Yeap, maybe, he just needed time to realize how important you are to him.
Some people say that we don't know what we have, until we lose it. But, it is good that it happened, and give him the chance of course, take it slow.
Or maybe, something magical happened, he now likes you at all, and it is because it was ment to be.
Anyways, good luck my dear, easy and slow ok.
And of course it really worth!.
2007-01-12 14:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a guy that has been thru a lot in his life. If a guy has a "friends with benefits" relationship - he will try to keep it just like it is (especially if he has no other feelings for the girl). The only way to find out is to "cut the benefits" - give him time to go thru all the withdrawal symptoms - 1. You took my benefits away "pout" 2. I want back what is mine "anger" 3. Do I really miss her that much "thoughtful". Then if he comes back and is more attentive, and quits trying to find benefits elsewhere, then he might be worth it. Hope this helps.
2007-01-12 14:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by John J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was not ready to handle what you said at the time, maybe now? Sometimes guys like a chase, know what i mean,,, play hard to get and see what happens. good luck
2007-01-12 14:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys can get personal to many girls and think its just a part of their friendship. dont rush yet, observe how he acts around you.
2007-01-12 13:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by aesthetic90210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋