In my last relationship i was extremly nice to the girl. I was always there for her. I went out of my way to make her happy. Then she broke up with me because she lost interest. I consider myself to be a good quality guy, but should i treat my next girlfriend with less kindness. Like try to make it a challenge for her instead of her always knowing that am going to be there for her.
2007-01-12 13:44:26 · 8 answers · asked by Pablo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, stay the way you are. Most girls like a challange but thats only because they dont see a good thing when they have it. i had a boyfriend a lot like you, he treated me very good and i lost interest but ever since i broke up with him (2006 feb.) i have regreted it soo much and still to this day regret it. Because most guys arent mature like you are.
2007-01-13 02:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pablo
Absolutely not.
If you're as nice a guy as you seem to be, why would you compromise yourself by treating your next GF crappy? (aside from the fact that it's just not the right thing to do.)
Regardless of what ANYone says...nice guys finish FIRST. Women like men who are gentle, kind-hearted and attentive. I think the problem is that your former GF was just too full of herself to appreciate those qualities in you.
Pablo continue to be yourself and you'll meet the right young lady and make her very, very happy!
2007-01-12 21:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your last relationship was one-sided. What do you mean by "going out of your way" to make her happy? it's important to love yourself and to be yourself. That self respect tells the other person that you are ready for a truly meaningful mutual relationship. It means being able to love but also being able to receive love and to walk away when you're not being appreciated for your qualities. Continue to be a nice guy, but be sure that it's mutual, that she is also taking care of you and respecting you.
2007-01-12 21:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by janie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One simple sentance friend, never let your past ruin your future, too many people let good relationships go because they arent themselves. You're not a jerk, so dont act like one. Its not your fault your ex wasnt the right on4 for you. Take Care.
2007-01-12 21:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HECK NO!!! that girl obviously had something wrong with her. Stay the same way that you are. There are so many girls who want to date a nice and caring guy, STAY THE WAY U ARE!!!
2007-01-12 21:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Sumara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should keep doing what you are doing the gurl that broke up with you well thats her loss but keep being nice and being there for her. maybe this gurl will like it. we need more guys like you
2007-01-12 21:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by Steelers Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no treat her the same a girl loves it when a guy treats them good and is there gfor them when they need them the most
2007-01-12 21:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be xactly like u were......that's gold--rare and wanted by every girl! :) man, i wish my bf was like that.
2007-01-12 21:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by soccerbabe37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋