Ifeel so incredibly lonely, i feel with all my self esteem destroyed, the funny thing is that there are other guys that are interested on me, and all of this makes me feel like a bad person.
I love him, but I don’t want to be with someone that doesn’t want to be with me, i cant end this relationship , i tried, but my heart was so broken I could not even sleep.
Should I go out as friends with other men, i am really lonely and i am waiting my life, he made me fall in love with him and now it’s like he fallen out of love,
2007-01-12 13:39:13 · 7 answers · asked by monis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BABE PLEASE LISTEN TO ME
yes i believe you he made you fall in love with him as that is what some men do...pretend they want something to get something then they want something else....etc
the thing is you need to get over him and my moto in life is dont fall for men as the thing is this if you are independant dont seem wanting or clingly They want you the moment you give yourself they go out and want what they cant have etc....
so something a friend told me last yr and she even have a book on it how BITCHY GIRLS keep there men
its just a figure of speach but its true men dont want weak teary eyed girls even though they break us down to that they dont..
fact is men SOME dont know what they want as they dont think with nothing other then one thing only few men have the capabilty to use there head and this men are on in a dime
This guy is not the one....do what we all do cry eat choc or have a drink be depressed for a bit then get on your hooker hills and get back out there as there are loads of men
2007-01-12 14:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by MissTee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did not MAKE you fall in love with him. You did that yourself.
Seems he is not that into you. Don't wait for men.Yes, go out with other guys!
I understand the heartache, feelings of loneliness and desperation but when you are with him, just have fun and don't think of the relationship, how he feels about you, or the possible outcome. Be the best date he ever had. No high drama. Time will tell. Hope this helps. Good luck. And in the meantime, go out with other guys and enjoy those times too.
2007-01-12 13:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop feeling sorry for your self and go out with your friends - they don't have to be men you go out with.
He didn't make you fall in love with him.
Men love the 'chase' of the beginning of a romance, once they have what they want they lose interest. You deserve better than this guy... find someone else.
2007-01-12 14:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the chase is over and now he has lost interest in you. You need to stand up tall get string and stop feeling sorry for yourself. does he deserve your love, if he don't then leave him. why would you wanna be with someone who make you feel this way.
2007-01-12 15:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by buffeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As above, he did not make you fall in love. you`ve merely allowed your own emotions to connect with your desires. which as you`ve now discovered are not being fulfilled. life is all about choices, and you can choose to go off and enjoy your life. nobody actually owns you, but you own your own feeling and are responsible for them.
2007-01-12 13:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he did made you fall in love then neglects you, he's one of those guys who think that the hard work is getting the girl and afterwards we're just their 'property'.
Talk to him & let him know what you feel.
If he still doesn't care, then you'll see that time will slowly eliminate that love you feel and realise he's not the one.
2007-01-12 16:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by toupou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some guys are just inlove with love.. once they get you to like them, they have won the challenge. so there is no point in staying. so if he's not into you anymore, fine. let him go and move on. its not like he is the hunkiest guy in the world. there are definitely alot more guys out there!!! so go ahead and fish
2007-01-12 14:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by mara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz men are dickheads.
2007-01-12 14:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by snuffylover4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋