A guy I'm dating for the past two months has said he does not see a commitment or love with me in the future. But the thing is he acts like he really has feelings for me. He treats me really well and tries hard to please me. When I'm at his house he doesn't want me to leave, wants me to sleep over and cuddle all night. He touches my face gently when we kiss. We do other stuff together besides just have sex, like watch movies and talk. He takes every opportunity to be with me, even breaking other plans with his friends. He drives 2 hours to come to my house. Does it sound like he has feelings for me now?
2007-01-12 13:34:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes even Stevie Wonder could see that this fella has strong feelings for you. Although he may not be aware of ready to accept that he is stuck on you he certainly appears to be. If you were to see another man would it cause jealousy or resentment, I'm betting it would. So take the time to discuss your feelings with him and ask him to explain in a mature manner his honest feeling for you. Good luck to you Sometimes and I hope things end as you wish for.
2007-01-12 13:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sometimes, Yes, he does care for you alot. Men are afraid of the word commitment, they feel like they are being tied down. Since he has said, no commitments in the future,this is away to sort of protect him. Just go along with it,in the end you will be together. A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-01-12 21:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it, but it seems like he is just using you... you should move on. If he already expressed not seeing a future with you, why would you want to have him around?
Find someone who also wants a serious relationship, if that's what you are seeking.
Good luck to you!!
2007-01-12 21:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshineluvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex with him and see how long he stays around. You will than know if he is committed or not.
2007-01-12 22:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by mjohnson1422 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he has changed his mind.
If he says no then
he is just with you till someone else comes along.
2007-01-12 21:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by southernbell_1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry.. but it seems that he juz tearts you as that someone he can hold.. but not the one he can love... sorry..
2007-01-12 21:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by jammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋