How can I be a good child for my parents?

Question

I am 13 years old,in grade 8.It's 9 monts me and my mom came to Canada , but my dad is been here for 4 years.I am such as smart student in school what every parents wish that for their children.But I get mad , sad and angry from them or every body else so fast,and that's my big problem , how can solve that problem,and be a good child for my parents?

Answer 1

Your question is so sweet and I feel you are sincere in wanting to stop some actions in your personality.You are just going to have to look into your situations and think how you could handle things that upset you to the point of sudden anger and count to ten, walk away( not from a parent who is talking to you, that's a no no.).And then the sadness. That feels awful ,doesn't it ??
Have you ever thought about the fact that you may be Bi Polar,.a
condition with severe mood swings ? I hope it is something that you can work on and correct yourself. I feel since you ask the question that you are going to be just the nicest kid a parent could hope for, in no time at all. Good luck & God Bless You Sweetie.

Answer 2

Don't worry; everyone goes through a period of a year or two when they get all moody and tempermental. It happened to me in 5th and 6th grade. Simply be yourself, with all the quirks you have ever acquired, because truthfully, that's what a good parent wants. If your moodiness is really bothering you, you could always ask your mom or dad how to help you get over it. You could suggest key phrases, so when you become attitudey, they could remind you by saying something, like "chocolate chip cookies..." If you go to them, it proves that you realize that you have been moody and you want to fix it. To your parents, it's a sign of maturity and openness. Just remember, to be a good child, be who you are. There's no other rules.

Answer 3

So your baby grow to be no longer born into your marriage? If he grow to be, then you honestly're assumed to be the daddy regardless of the DNA truth. seem into this. Get a relatives criminal professional and assert your parental rights because you apparently have not achieved so in the previous 5 years. i'm having difficulty knowledge the position you've been for 5 years and why you probably did not get joint custody upon your divorce. yet you'll assert your parental rights, to boot because the privilege of paying baby help, now.

Answer 4

Be a good child by doing the best that you are able to do. No one not even your parents can expect anymore from you than your personal best. And if you are mad, or sad towards your parents than you should find a way to talk to with them about your feelings.

Answer 5

You don't sound like a bad kid...maybe a little short tempered, but not abnormal. Some people are more emotional than others and they show it. When you feel negative stuff coming up, take a deep breath and count to ten in your head before you say or do anything.

Answer 6

It sounds like you are; the first thing to do is be a good person for yourself. You have a lot going for you. Your 13 years old you are going to have a lot of mood swings in your teenage years. Make goals for yourself, and focus on them. Remember your folks will always love you even though you are not totally perfect.

Answer 7

Amazing that you care, good job.
You are quick tempered it sounds like, just learn a breathing technique or step back from the situation that is angering you. There is nothing wrong with taking some advice from a professional counselor

Answer 8

welcome to the "teens" your teenage years, you are going through so many changes, physically, mentally and emotionally. by you moving here that is another thing for you to adjust to.
before you say anything stop and take a deep breath and think carefully about your answer instead of an impulse response. talk to your parents and tell them how you feel.

good luck!!

Answer 9

be open/ talk to them. sit down and say what is in your heart. tell them to please give you time and listen