I have a friend that I met at work a few months ago..I kinda had a crush on him, but he's gay..He found out and we started talking and as far as I know we are friends..We hung out for a little this past weekend and when he left he he made a remark about coming back, which surprised me because i didn't think he was having fun! Since then he hasn't called me ,texted me, and when I see him at work he avoids me. I don't understand what his problem is!!! can anyone help??
2007-01-12 13:04:49 · 10 answers · asked by confusedgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and ask him
2007-01-12 13:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it might not be good advice. But don't get too serious with this gay guy. I mean staying strictly platonic friends and that's it is find. Other than that don't get yourself involved in any other way. I am not a gay basher. But some people out there go both ways and health wise that is deathly. Sexually transmitted diseases and HIV. People these days tell lies and are not that trusting. As a cytotechnologist I have screened many pap smears and seen shocking things!!!!!
2007-01-12 21:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he left to try and start a new beginning but didnt want everyone to know about it. when ppl move or leave to go somewhere they focus on whats going on around them at that point and time, they have no concern about people from the past. there in the moment. im not sure if he left and forgot about you or he didnt really like you at the beginning but im sure things will come around.. think about it this way, you dont know what happend to his phone or if there had been an emergancy. so dont go jumping to conclustions.
2007-01-12 21:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by Heather T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him one side and speak to him, find out what is bugging him. Maybe he is not completely gay and is still undecided? Who knows? The only way that you will know for sure is communicate with him! It is simple! Good Luck
2007-01-12 21:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be feeling things that he doesn't want to. He may feel uncomfortable about confiding in you like he has. Maybe he had too much fun, and he is questioning himself. Ask him or all you will be doing is guessing.
2007-01-12 21:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by Carlene W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that he has feelings 4 u but he doesn't won't to bring then out cause you all are friends, and he probably feels like u r trying to change his feelings about men. And also he shared things with you that he's ashamed to experience with u.
2007-01-12 21:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by htangy22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels uncomfortable because he let you in too far. Accept that he doesn't want to call, and let it go.
2007-01-12 21:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first idea was correct. He wasn't having fun.
2007-01-12 21:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes def gay.
oh wait he IS gay.
oh. well hes gay. and he is the source of evil and satan.
2007-01-12 21:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by radiokiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.
2007-01-12 21:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋