We have bin together for 9 weaks and we have just split up. she says that she doesnt feal the same bout the relationship as when we first started going out! how can i make her want me back and how do i make her love me? what should i say or do? plz help :)
2007-01-12 12:57:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can't make someone want you or love you. if she's decided to move on, the best thing for you to do would be to move on as well.
2007-01-12 13:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by laura michelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nine weeks is a good amount of time to get to know someone. Some times after a length of time you start seeing the big differences clearer. You need to respect her feelings. You cant force a person to have feelings that just aren't there. Theres probably nothing you can say at this point. Just move on and keep your chin up. I know your very hurt right now, but don't call and bother her. Let her go and try to get on with your life. Good Luck To You.....
2007-01-12 21:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, STOP IT !! 9 weeks is hardly enough time to know each other's name. She tried you out and has now moved on to someone she thinks she likes better. ( note "she thinks she likes better" ), because she doesn't know what she wants. She will continue "shopping" for what she thinks she wants until all her options are gone and she has to start going back over the list she has already dated. Nothing wrong in this method...... but it doesn't tag her as being the most loyal and trustworthy girl around. Move on, Bucko.... you can't make anyone love you.... and if you have to make them love you.... isn't that like love at gunpoint?? Find someone who wants to be with you for who you are. You shouldn't have to make them do anything.
2007-01-12 21:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make her want you back. Get some new clothes and clean up. Comb your hair and gel it. Also, get some new deoderant ( i recomend Axe) or a new calone. If she still doesnt want you back then you do the fun part. Get another girl and make your ex jealous by kissing her and spending a lot of time with her.
2007-01-12 21:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by S.W.A.T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok it like this you can not get back what you have lose because 2 people do not want the same thing! spend a little time with yourself and love yourself over again!
2007-01-12 21:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by keep_it_smileing 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first i suggest you use spell check next time. second, i suggest that after 9 weeks you dont know LOVE. third, you can't MAKE anyone love you. Four, move on, 9 weeks is nothing, get over her.
2007-01-12 21:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by Me of course 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cannot force someone to feel something that is no longer there I say heal your heart and move on its her loss and you can find someone better !
2007-01-12 21:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like me im a girl and so is you lover.if i had only been dating a person for a whole 9 weeks then i might want some space...........if you want her to know you still love her then man give her some space.......if you dint fell like you can do that then maybe you get her some girts....
2007-01-12 21:04:08 · answer #8 · answered by alyssaowings 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude you can't make her love you, or force her to want you back. I say: "Move on!"
2007-01-12 21:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't make somebody want you, you can't make them love you. face it she's not interested. Let it go and move on.
2007-01-12 21:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by Pandora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋