I am 4 months pregnant with his child, and I find myself longing for the days when it was just myself and my kids in our little apt. Keyword being OUR, could this just be hormones or what? I super love my fiance, and we have no problems at all, we communicate perfectly, but I find myself wishing for the days when it was just us (me and the girls) our way, our time, not worrying about anyone else.
Has anybody else gone from single parenthood to married life and felt the same thing at one time or another?
2007-01-12 12:52:24 · 5 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I went from Single no kids to married with two kids now I have three. All boys. I love my wife very much. I think it is normal the way you feel, you kids probably feel the same way. Just remember this man has taken on a great responsability. He has taken on the children that are not his own, and promised to love them with his all. He probably misses being single too, on his own. Keep up the good work and try to deal with the freedom being taken away. Good luck with the pregnancy.
2007-01-12 12:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Brian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think that happens when you are not sure of given up your space in life to someone else. If you look deeper there's something that is not that comforting about this person in your life. Maybe it's something you are looking over or trying to look over. Deal with it head on. Start with why was the time in the APT with just you and the girls so special? Why can't it be that way now? Are you feeling rushed, pressured or sorry that you got pregnant? Get a piece of paper and write these thoughts out . Make a pros and cons list. See what you come up with. Or it could be just the change of life and more responsibility.
2007-01-12 21:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U have to make room in your life for this man if not dont even go through with the wedding
2007-01-12 20:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're just longing for what was.
Did you really like it? You left that life style for a reason.
2007-01-12 20:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, live for yourself and your kids. that is all.
2007-01-12 20:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋