Well, My ex-girlfriend and i been talking, has been getting close even though she has a boyfriend. Their going through relationship issues and what not so i gave her a diamond necklace and walk her home and etc . So her and her boyfriend breaks up over the necklace... but 2 weeks later she finds out i am talking to another girl. She knows i been waiting on her for a long time, but i had to keep my options open cause she had a boyfriend.. 3 days ago she sends me a text asking who is the girl. I tell her a "Someone". She next ask me "is she your girlfriend or something". I tell her "no", she is a friend with benfits". Then she replies saying "oh, well i'm glad you are happy. She won't text me back or pick up the phone when i call her anymore. Was it good she found out that i am talking to other girls to show her that i am not going to be waiting on her forever?
2007-01-12 12:49:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not so bad that you let her know you are open to seeing other girls. It IS REALLY BAD that you let her know "she is a friend with benefits." Especially if you did not define benefits. Exactly what do you mean by "benefits?" You left yourself WIDE open for interpretation. If the shoe were on the other foot, what would you have said?
2007-01-12 13:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by 4kids2pay4 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...sounds like she strung you along for quite awhile. You are allowed to move on. But you need to actually move on now!! It looks like your starting to do the same thing to her that she did to you. Not too cool.
2007-01-12 12:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by GraceSlickChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more careful next time...
Love can be very sensitive..
2007-01-12 12:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋