My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Does he feel guilty for dumping me & wanted to feel better by taking me out or did he miss me & wanna be friends? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends?
2007-01-12 12:49:19 · 8 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Despite his experience with other girls does he really want a good girl like me at heart?Is he still attracted to me if he wants to hang out even as friends? He's 26 in grad school while I'm 21 & finishing university.
2007-01-12 12:50:25 · update #1
Ask him. From your description it sounds like he wants to be friends. If you have feelings for him, stick to your values and if he's interested, he'll pursue you.
2007-01-12 12:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its a few things it could be:
1. He feels bad for dumping you
2. He wonders if you will ever maybe try a sexual relationship before marriage
3. He might just want to be friends
4. (kinda off the wall) He plans on taking advantage of you one night drunk
My advice. Be nice but don't agree with going out with him on dates and such. He chose to break it off by the sounds of it by your desire to be abstinent till marriage and wanted a piece of tail sooner.
2007-01-12 12:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i like your question,
something similar happen to me once he say bye bye to me(dump)
for some reason, i don't no it
after about half of the year later he call me and ask me, do u want to go see a movie ?? he asked
i say sure =/ (with a lot of question mark in my mind???)
it was surprise for me
well then he say that he was busy , so we did not go out.
i will don't care the crap about him(sorry if i talk so rude)
i just be friend , but he seem like he don't want to. so whatever
2007-01-12 13:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by sana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult question. I think (and this is only my opinion) that he wants to be friends and hang out. Maybe see if there is still something there. And I want to say I salute you for saving yourself for marriage. I think that is wonderful. Not many people do that these days.
2007-01-12 12:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by mommyramey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey - he wants some scootch.
If you're holding back on the scootch, he's only going to see you once in a while.
2007-01-12 12:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by Blim 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he grew up and wants to make sure he is not missing the best thing that happen to him
2007-01-12 12:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by bill_swaney2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be he is not ready to settle down and he knows he cannot tie you down, because he knows you want commitment or not hanky panky.....who knows?
2007-01-12 12:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to pose these questions to him when he gets back
2007-01-12 12:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know ..you need to be asking him these questions...
2007-01-12 12:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by hatchetmistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋