ok, so i know this girl who goes after several guys at a time, and she doesn't even like them as much; she just goes after them because she wants to prove that she could get any guy she wants; it didn't bother me until i found out that she was going after the guy i REALLY REALLY like. What do I do now??
2007-01-12 12:33:14 · 17 answers · asked by ToTaLlY iN lOvE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well..all i got to say is that dont be friend with her because everyone know that she's easy..and if you hang out with her people will think you're like that too..and you dont want that reputation..
maybe the only reason why guys says yes to her all the time because they know she's easy and they prolly just want to use for that reason..
maybe you should confront her and tell her that she's acting like a slut..that it aint cute..tell her all..
tell her the guys just likes her back because of her reputation..she goes around...and what goes around comes around...one day she's going to really really like a guy and that guy wont even touch her coz she's been with everybody..
just keep your head up and ignore her..a guy you want shouldnt be easy like that..find someone else who would like you and that you'll get to first instead of that other girl..
theres always a girl who steals guys from other girls..and she's the one who's gonna get it at the end...
so dont get mad and get jealous...just be glad you're not like her..
2007-01-12 12:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by lovelylen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the classic "Paris Hilton Syndrome."
Look, there are about five-hundred Lifetime Channel, after-school specials that deal with your exact dillema. Basically, knowing her pattern of behavior, you're just going to have to let him decide if he wants her, which he probably WILL. Then, when she's done with him, yeah he'll be hurt, but he will learn something from it and be all the wiser. THEN you can come in and sweep him off his feet.
2007-01-12 20:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her that she isn't in a contest to find out how many guys she can date, that isn't a good way to get remembered. And as far as he goes, tell him you like him and find out what his take is, and let him know she is after him, he may want to hide for a while.
2007-01-12 20:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by mommyramey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ignore it.
My friend is exactally the same way, she ended up going out with the kid I'd liked.
I'm so glad she's still straight.
But in honesty, you have to let it go, there are girls who like to prove there status, look around and think they can have anyone they want? And she's on the phone so I have to go.
2007-01-12 20:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by curiosityreincarnated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat her ***!!! Lol just kidding..........If the guy you like can't see through her & would be dumb enough to even be played by her then you don't want his *** anyways. As for her...if she is screwing all these guys, she will have a life full of shame & regret. Any guy that knows her will always see her as a whore & will never want anything but sex.
2007-01-12 20:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by nealejess401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guy and go out with him 1st.
Good Luck
2007-01-12 20:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to LIVE with a girl like that! It was awful. I hated watching her do it. Talk to her about it. Be straight up and let her know.
2007-01-12 20:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Purple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off she CANT have any guy she wants...i hate girls like her and i'd tell her **** off....tell the guy u like that u like him. just cuz that girl is slutty and easy doesnt mean all guys will like her. i know i wouldnt thats a huge turn off for me when girls act like that..
2007-01-12 20:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, i know it sounds hard, but if you explain it to him, things will b easier in the long run! good luck!
2007-01-12 20:37:07 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like that usually get their just desserts, one way or another.
2007-01-12 20:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋