We were out to dinner & I was joking with him & he kicked me in the shin so hard I almost cried. I yelled at him & told him he hurt me. He said I didn't know what pain was. He said when he broke,dislocated & relocated his pinky THAT was pain.I said" your saying me breakin my leg, havin pancreatitus, 2 busted knees werent pain? He said No not like mine was. I said what about the 72 hours i spent pushin ur fat head out of me. My hubby said thats eves fault she ate the apple.....she sinned 1st...and do u know what my son said???????? He said That's why the rule is LADIES FIRST ! DO U BELIEVE THAT???????????
2007-01-12 12:32:35 · 15 answers · asked by earthangel_candy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well the joke i made WAS a hit below the belt but that doesn't give him the right to hit me. So when we got to the truck i smacked my hubby & told him it is TIME to teach his son some respect. and that if our son hit me again i was gonna smack them both.
2007-01-12 12:45:16 · update #1
hes got a sick sense of humor, but i don't think hes going to be chauvinistic. you were exchanging playful banter and you got your feelings hurt.
2007-01-12 12:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mastronaut 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well what can I say with a dad like that and a mom like that you will get a child like that... look I would think that the real question here is why you have allowed him to get that big and that mean in the first place. he has to get a handle on the basic Idea that the pain that is felt by another person is still pain and that is all that is important to the facts... I may one day get the right to defend my right to be the dad but if my son pulled that crap he would have felt a sudden sharp stinging in his hind parts from his dads hand.
2007-01-12 20:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by chris f 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like the three of you need counseling. A child of any age kicking or hitting a parent should never be tolerated. If he did it in public, he has no fear of retribution. And YES he is already a chauvinist and daddy is leading the pack
2007-01-12 20:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by She Devil 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ever think that he is doing it because he knows he can get a rise out of you? What do you intend to tell him when he is the one being picked on? I was always told that if you ignore them, they lose interest and stop (or go bother someone else). And it works. You are playing into his hands!
2007-01-12 20:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by Scottee25 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
from this snippit I would say that your husband has a lot to do with the lack of respect for women. I don't know how I would handle the situation. I know myself would leave both of them. I know it's your son, but if he disrespects you that much his father can take care of him.
2007-01-12 20:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by mamadana 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Like father like son. Maybe you can help him, but it sounds as if they're both too far gone.
2007-01-12 20:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Divorce hubby..
Give hubby custody of son...
They deserve each other.
2007-01-12 20:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'd smack the crap out of that little brat and show him who's boss.
2007-01-12 20:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by ☆Kristi☆ Lucy Jane's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My advice to you is one beat him while he is still young,And let him cook his own food and do his own clothes for awhile things will change.
2007-01-12 20:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by unbelievable 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you have two winners.
2007-01-12 20:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by fluer_ball 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋