i really like this guy da only problem is that im 17 n his 20 is that a problem/ i wana know if his into me we been talking on the phone tex each otha when theres a change and hanging out ..how can i tell if his into me..should i make a move?
2007-01-12 12:21:37 · 18 answers · asked by ms.Drz Nena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait till you're 18.Unless it's ok with your parents.
2007-01-12 12:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I just keep it real. Even though women are alot more mature than woman. I hope that you will be 18 soon(with all the laws and stuff these days.) Anyhoo, the key is to take it sssllloowwww! Don't call him too much let him do some of the work. Don't seem too eager. You'll know if he likes you if he puts in the effort and most importatly if you wait to have sex he will respect you and if you are worth it to him he will wait.
2007-01-12 12:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by nina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally do not have a problem with that but depending on where you live, it could be illegal. He would get in a lot of trouble. Check out your local laws on underage restrictions.
If the law is not a problem then:
Is it a problem for you?
Is it a problem for him?
If you answered no, then go for it. Don't let what anyone else thinks stop you from being happy.
2007-01-12 12:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion that age difference is not too much (only 3 years).
but what concerns me is that you are phone dating.Not a good way to tell if he is into you until you actually go out and meet him in person, you should go on a face to face date to find out. But arrrange for someone to go with you to make sure he is not a psycho. Also try to get as much info on this dude as you can and tell a few of your friends about this guy so they know his wearabouts just incase he is a phsyco.
2007-01-12 12:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jose P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was 14 my boyfriend was 18 and it wasn't a problem. The way to tell if he is in 2 you or not is how much he calls how often he tries to hang out and if he calls u right after u leave eachotha.
2007-01-12 12:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Melo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it's probably a problem if you're 14 and he's 34.
Seriously! You're less than 4 years apart!!
Make a move, not make a move. Whatever. I mean, unless you're planning on kidnapping him and chaining him up in a closet in your basement for months on end... That might not be so ok...
2007-01-12 12:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by Cheshire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its a problem a t all...
whn i met my bf, i was 20 and he was 27..
i thought about our age difference but because i liked his personalities and i know that he cares for me..thats all that matters...and him and i are serious...and he's the first guy i dated who is a lot older than me and no complaints..=)
he's more ambitious and driven when it comes to his future unlike my other ex-bfs..my ex's we're bout my age and its annoying cus they act like they dont care..
but im happy with my bf now and i dont even see the age between us because we both love each other and when it comes to love..love makes both of us the same...
but i think if you reallly like this guy and if he feels the same go for it...go with the flow and maybe it'll last or maybe not..
but if it does at least you'll be happy that you're with him and that you didnt ruin it because of the age difference
2007-01-12 12:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by lovelylen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think theres ne problem at all 20 is an okay age for me over 25 is bad lol
2007-01-12 12:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by salvy_chick05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me age is not an issue in relationships (as long as both are mature enough)
My husband is 17 years older than me and we have been together 12 years.
Good luck to you .....
2007-01-12 12:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by Aussie Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you are 18 and he is 21, then there should be no problem. If you like the guy, protect him from getting in trouble.
2007-01-12 12:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by time_wounds_all_heelz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋