My Boyfriend took me in when mum threw me out, I was drunk and she said dont come back till I was sober, My boyfriend ofered me somewhere to stay, got me some new clothes, paid for new school uniform everything, He treated me ike a grown up sharing his beer and gear and we got high and he took me, and I realised I was gay. We have moved on but now he likes me to dress as a girl rund the house and to have breast implants when i leave school, He says I can live as a girl at his place in America, it si getting too much but life at home was intolerable, what should I do
2007-01-12 12:14:25 · 16 answers · asked by Timothy B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if this was true and you were bothered you wouldn't be on here asking us you'd be trying to get away from your pervy boyfriend.
Get a life
2007-01-12 21:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jovi Freak 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your (much older) bf is probably full of bullsh*t...he's into younger boys..as soon as you get too old for his tastes he'll get bored of you and find someone younger.
And you have to ask yourself...do you really want breast implants?? Besides...you could take hormone treatments if you really wanted to look like a woman...but i don't think you do want to change your gender. You're a young gay guy and that's all...sooner or later you'll be done with your sugar daddy..or he'll be done with you.
This guy has been 'nice' to you..he bought you stuff and gave you gear and beer...and promises you can live with im in the US, but do you know how difficult it is to emigrate to there?
...basically..it's not going to happen!
He is just playing you...manipulating you to do what he wants you to do.
And what's worse is...you feel you are doing it all of your own free will, but you're not.
I hope you manage to find some happiness in your life soon..because what you're in now doesn't sound like a happy place.
2007-01-13 20:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sight 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you should go home and you should talk to someone who can help you.your not gay you have been sexually abused and your situation been taken advantage of by a paedophile and he should be locked up.i'm sure there is someone who can help you,you say your still at school well go and see the principle in private and tell him whats happening.i'm sure he will get the right help for you especially
if it's impracticable to send you home.i and others have looked at your profile and i hope your being honest,this type of thing upsets a lot of ppl me included.
2007-01-13 07:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by BUSHIDO 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound young and confused.hes NOT treating you like a grown up if hes offering you beer and buying you clothes hes treating you like male prostitute ,he took advantage of you, you cant just decide OH im gay
forget about him and go back to your mum, she will love you no matter what you are, just talk to her
2007-01-12 20:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥™Tia™♥♥ 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Mom's usually understand and are always there no matter what. I think that you should try and build a better relationship with your mom and go home! God bless and best wishes to you!
2007-01-12 20:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by littleone84 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Save up some money then move out and buy your own place.
2007-01-12 20:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get your life together and be more independent. But first you should probably make amends with your family and try to get sober. good luck.
2007-01-12 21:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by gwen 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Seems like you were treated better at home.
2007-01-12 21:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by kiwi 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You sound like you are having fun having your rear looked after(Pardon)
2007-01-12 20:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Run home to mama. She'll love you no matter what!
2007-01-12 20:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by ☆Kristi☆ Lucy Jane's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋