I'm 21 years old....I am pretty and know a lot of people and guys. But i cant seem to get a boyfriend. I've been on a lot of dates, but never get called back. ( i dont kiss on first dates either)..........what should I do?
2007-01-12 12:10:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its all about personality ...be sparkly.... inside and out and love you first ..then the rest will follow............
2007-01-12 12:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose uptight and snotty like the other person could be a problem and I have been on dates with women that I decided not to kiss because they were uptight and snotty, but more frequently I feel really uncomfortable around them because some women just can't get comfortable. It's a serious problem for American women... they are not so "uptight" because of being mean or driven, but because they seem squeamish... like they can never quite be comfortable being themselves. That squeamishness radiates from them and makes the guy feel uncomfortable. That, in turn, screws up the whole date because he might start thinking, "ok, is this the kind of woman that screams 'DATE RAPE' if I try to hold her hand?" Granted, the guy could ask first, which would really be a good idea, but people don't think that's the right thing to do, so people get all indirect and uncomfortable because they feel like they need to play head games.
Another possibility is that you beat people over the head with your religion. This severely narrows your opportunities because many people will feel that what you really mean to say is that you're a control freak. I don't know many guys that like that.. ok, zero.
Anyway, my advice is this:
1. Learn to relax
2. Learn to be direct and assertive
2007-01-12 20:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cheshire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should check if you have an attitude towards these guys. That may be the reason. If you are nice and polite, I can't see any reason why you shouldn't get called back.
And like the first answer said, I really don't think it has anything to do with kissing on the first dates. I also don't kiss on first dates and I always get called. lol...
Hope I answered your question.
2007-01-12 20:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Galinsky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I know what you mean... I'm 19 and my last so called 'relationship' was with a guy who was sleeping with half of Melbourne! Have you tried an online dating service? You can find people with the same interests and ideas as you. I've known people who have met through those things and gotten married! I don't think it's anything your doing wrong, its all about timing and patience. Best of luck, I feel your pain!
2007-01-12 20:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by cazza4487 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the brush like near kiss that gets that call back...brush your lips quickly over his - pull away as you say good night and smile and wait for the call. But catch him off guard or he'll force a kiss.
2007-01-12 20:20:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you uptight and snotty? that could be a reason, it has nothing to do with not kissing on the first date
2007-01-12 20:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am single and and looking for a girl that is tired off all the games!! here my email address if you want to get to know me!! efrain78223@yahoo.com
2007-01-12 20:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um start kissin at least on tha cheek
2007-01-12 20:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by Restricted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its your personality
2007-01-12 20:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋