Ok I'm 14 & I like guys alot! I've had crushes, b.f.'s, ect. & I think lots of guys are cute.
But lately I've been terrified I could turn out gay one day. I think its partly b.c I read so much about gay people in magazines & stuff anymore & they act like they can't control being gay. See, I'm the kind of person who gets really upset & worries about something all the time .. I'm never not freaked out. [I've concinvced myself I have a brain tumor, was pregnant tho I'm a virgin, & tons of other rare/impossible stuff. I think I have OCD w. worrying]
But anyways the only reason I could possibly think I was gay is that sometimes if I see a girl wearing a really skimpy bikini or something I get like this weird feeling .. not that I like looking at her [gross..] but juss like .. idk. But I have never had a crush on a girl or anything like that!!!!!!!!!!!
But ok if I did one day wake up gay my whole life would be ruined .. I couldn't get married & have kids or anything [to b continued]
2007-01-12 12:06:59 · 2 answers · asked by Abby S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
& I don't even think I could stand myself enough to have friends or a career. I mean this would litterally destroy my life. Tho I swear to God I would never, ever, ever do anything with a girl [the thought discusts me] I'm scared this is like a sign when I get older I'll be gay. I'm sooo scared right now that I'm litterally sick & crying .. so can someone convince me I'm not gay ?? how can I stop worrying ?? Please help me!
Reminder - I have crushes on guys..
2007-01-12 12:09:25 · update #1
well teh feeling u get when u see grls isnt the u liking them, its just u wanting to have their stomach or boobs. u might not like ur body so thats y u do that. and if u do turn gay, which u probably wont so dont worry too much about it, than that is just ur burden in life and u have to do u best not to do anyhitng with grls cuz that is the challenge that God gave u.GOOD LUCK FINDING A BOY FRIEND!!! and dont worry ur not gay.
2007-01-12 13:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by anysportzchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is unquestionably some thing you want to be sure a health care professional about. widespread actual people do not spontaneously seem and disappear like that. And ghosts do not recognize your each element and secret regardless of in case you do see them, so he's not any longer a ghost both. i don't believe of this can bypass away by using itself, so search for suggestion from a pro. hi there... this does no longer advise you're loopy or maybe mentally sick. there are a variety of of tangible diseases that would reason psychological indications like hallucinations, so per chance it truly is one in all those. i do not recognize what all of them are, and regardless of if i could record them I likely does no longer spell them excellent, yet i recognize they exist. i actually hallucinated from a heavy fever one time, so i recognize it occurs.
2016-10-30 23:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋