Did you eventually get over him/her?
Are you still in love with them years later?
Would you try to win them back if you had the chance?
2007-01-12 12:02:10 · 9 answers · asked by Sienna Baker 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I could get him back I would. We are still good friends but so much time has passed between us. I will alwayz love him, but I don't know that I would set myself up to be hurt again. No guarantee that things would work out the second time around.
2007-01-12 12:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by laedeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought my first boyfriend was my one true love. I stuck around for way too long, and he ended up breaking my heart. I was miserable for quite a few months. I would have done anything to get him back. I took a vacation and started hanging out with my friends and making new ones. Even after that I still missed him a little bit, but then I started getting over it. I met a few guys and went on some dates and realized there was still a whole world of men out there. A couple months went by after I completely got over him and I met an awesome, much hotter, guy. It made me wonder why I dated my previous boyfriend in the first place. I've been with the guy for over 5 years now and it's great. Ladies - don't let one man get you down - you're allowed a mourning period but remember there's someone out there for you and he's not necessarily a part of your past!
2007-01-12 20:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by *Photo-op* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with a boy (Anton) for a couple months and I broke up with him, couple months later we got back together because i felt like i couldnt live without him, he went to jail for 8months and i waited for him because i felt like i couldnt be with any one els, we ALWAYS spoke about having kids together and all that, When he got out of jail we was together about another month and then i found out he had cheated on me and i felt like my heart had been ripped out and i ended it. 1Year on and ive been with my boyfriend now for just over 6months and i love him to bits and i no he feels the same, he treats me like a princess and the other day he took me to look at engagment rings. Now looking back i KNOW now i didnt love Anton i just NEEDED to be with some one and im so0o00o glad now we never followed through having children!!.. I no now i am truely with my "one".. and its the best feeling ever when you find that person.
2007-01-12 20:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by West-Lnds-Finest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I lost him. I'm still not over him but I wouldn't want him now because he isn't a good person. Deep down inside I want him but my brain now has control over that instead of my heart.
2007-01-12 20:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by k b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I did. I never got over it and I would not try to win them back because now its there loss.I seen a pic of him on myspace 15 yrs later and it wasnt pretty...but I am..
2007-01-12 20:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sxoxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I lost him.
No, I'm not over him.
Yes, I am still in love with him 10 years later.
Yes, I would rather try and fail than beat myself up over not trying.
2007-01-12 20:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by suzy q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!
i was so head over heels in love with an ex bf but it seems like he wasnt over with his ex. at that time i thought he's THE ONE. now, i dunno why.. when i broke up with him, it took me a year to get over him..
if given the chance, i wouldnt get back with him cuz i've already moved on.. not that i regret what happened but it was certainly a learning experience..
and in the words of regine v's "you've made me stronger by breaking my heart"
2007-01-12 20:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Hot Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im answering starting by the quest. in bold..
YES i lost him and it sucks!!
no and i probably will never no matter how many guys come and go from my life
yes i am (not exaggerating) every min. i think of him
hell yes....not a second thought about it either
2007-01-12 20:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not yet I hope I never ever lose her
2007-01-12 20:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by csm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋