I've been going out with my boyfriend Jared for about three months. The problem is I don't feel like I want to be in a relationship anymore because I've just started to get my life on track. I've been dealing with an illness and I want to work on myself and not have to worry about a relationship. I want to get a job, get my license and just worry about me for right now. I might even be going back to school. I just don't want to worry about a relationship. Should I follow my heart and break up with him so I can make a better future for myself, or should I just stay with him.
Thanks for your help.
Jessie~
2007-01-12 11:58:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow your head or you will regret it the rest of your life. Take your time and get that education and when the right guy comes along, you'll know and not have to ask anyone if he's right for you.
2007-01-12 12:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by notadeadbeat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kind of funny but I will reply as best as I can. All I feel is, if the relationship is holding you back, for example, if your boyfriend is too demanding, then it is probably better to break up but if he is not demanding and if he understands that you have to be serious with your life, he can give you some space and you guys can still be in love. Also, I want to ask, do you really like him? If you do, does he really like you? If he does then I don't see any reason why you should break up with him. Just get to talk to him about the issue of getting your life together and see how he feels about it. Even if there is going to be a break up, let it be amicable.
Cheers...
2007-01-12 20:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Galinsky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable with a relationship at this moment, sit him down and explain to him how you feel and what it is that you wanna do. He will understand I am sure don't get into anything that you are not ready for. And if he really wanna be with you he will wanna see you follow your dreams and see you happy he will be there to support you on your journey, you can ask him to in your talk if you like for him to be your support and a friend until you get your life together. The only way he will know is if you talk to him he is not a mind reader he will understand. Tell him how you feel what you wanna do and what you would like for him to do. Don't put a lot of stress on yourself right now follow your heart. You have to get your life together before you can share it with someone else you know. So go talk to him.
2007-01-12 20:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fallow your heart and break up with him
If not you might reget the deision the rest of your go and get the education now. Later he might change anyway and you'll want out of the relationship despritely. And will have missed your chance
2007-01-12 20:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Misskmomo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I no what ya mean...i have had friends in the same situation...follow your heart, and concentrate on your dreams. you dont have to fully "break up"...just say that you want to be friends for a while. who knows, you'll probally find someone even better in the future.
2007-01-12 20:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by AJ597 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think you shuld make your future better and break up w/ your boyfriend. Tell him how you want to get on with your life and everything. Don't put it harshly, try to be calm when u tell him. Ask if you can maybe still be friends. i dont know. good luck anyways.
- bobby
2007-01-12 20:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by skaterdude3240 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow ur heart get ur life on track then sekkle down and find a relationship if he luvs u and is serious about u he will wait trust me and if he is'nt then he aint the one 4 u darlin xxx goodluck
2007-01-12 20:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mizz T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be in a relationship, then you won't give it your all and it'll begin to suck.
Just break up with him, explain your reasons and be happy its only 3 months!
2007-01-12 20:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by texas hearts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should move on with your life,you seem to have alot of problem's going on in your life right now and those are very inportant to get done,talk to your boyfriend and see if he will support in what you need to do,if not break up with him and move on with your life.
2007-01-12 20:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by david f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart.
you never want to be in a relationship your doubting one bit.
it will only make it worse for the both of you.
2007-01-12 20:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋