I tell people I care about to stop smoking because I dont want to see them dead soon, so if I see a FAT person I care about stuffing their face with twinkies why would it be wrong to tell them not to?
of course people that are fat because they're sick don't count
2007-01-12 11:56:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
I think it should be okay to do so because we should care about one another. I think the reason people take offense is: you can put the cigarette out and sneer at the person nagging you. You can't take your fat off and say, "Are you happy now?"
2007-01-12 20:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! You should not tell them like that. Your attitude is bad form! You could, however, ask them to your house or out for an amazing salad dinner followed by a nice walk through a park or mall or around a few blocks while you both talk. That would be much better! You can't just insult people. You should offer them a helpful solution and show your good example dressed with kindness.
2007-01-12 12:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Sweetmusic ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In what way are you suffering. The low fat varieties must be on the shelf top next to the greater fat varities. you do no longer ought to purchase something you do no longer want to , yet considering that while are you king of the universe and God forbid you ought to examine something that offends you? And by applying the way, you're preaching to the chior right here. I agree, this entire nutrition plan factor is a few distance out of hand. 2 p.c. physique fat stands out as the top human beings all, yet some human beings,l no rely if with the aid of undesirable conduct, genetics, actual themes or besides the fact that - they desire help. consistent with danger you shoudl congratulate them for attempting to drop pounds quite then hating for them being in this place. What approximately people who're underweight, Is it ok for me to assume they're all aneorexic and there fore have a "stupid diease, or ought to i attempt to be compassionate? i could want to indicate to you that some shops - certianly no longer all of them interior the universe, yet some, nonetheless produce different customers different then you definately. and a few of those customers have distinctive desires from you. i understand, it quite is surprising. be at liberty to purchase and consume besides the fact which you want and overlook with regard to something of it.
2016-12-12 10:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is reasons why they are addicted to eating what ever it maybe may not be your business. If you know the person you could ask them why ? My personal experience is when they get tired of being over weight they will do some thing about it you can support them then. If they don't care then there is just no hope. this comes from a person who got up to 200lbs when pregnant and it took me 1yr to get it all off to 120lbs. I still gained 15 lbs back I just got tired of being over weight.
2007-01-12 12:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Ever tell a person they are fat, but you can help them on the right track to eating. Instead of McDonald's suggest a healthy alternative.-Subway,etc. Go shopping with them. No doubt they will see something they want not in their size. Bring up the idea of goal setting and then offer to go on a diet with them. Please don't go to them and tell them," Stop eating! your too fat." Please. Be better than that.
2007-01-12 12:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. A great percent of the time it's not what they eat, but a deeper medical problem that they don't even know about yet, or do know but nothing can be done about it. So try and be kinder to fat people. You never know when you may turn out to be one yourself.
2007-01-12 12:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you can try..but if you tried it on me I would ...you know..hurt you...you see fat people are fat for different reason ..most of the time its not just eating..I didn't put on weight until my parents broke up..in a way its a security blanket..is sad ..but smokers and drinkers are really depress persons as well..you should look at your self and and help your self..I am sure I could find some faults for you to work on..one I think your gay..lets start there..no dyck for you..
2007-01-12 12:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kingofreportedabuse 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Depending upon whom you say this to, you could end up with a stuffed face - stuffed with their fist, for example. It's not a reaction that I would condone, but it could happen.
You could express an overall concern about that person's health, but you can't influence their decisions.
2007-01-12 12:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
if you care about them, then sure...but i doubt it will help, because fat people don't care about anyone or anything but food..that is how they got that way....
2007-01-12 12:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bad form, Friend. Express concern, perhaps. But don't be obnoxious.
2007-01-12 12:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Tigger 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋