I've had a crush on this guy for a long time but my much prettier friend just got him, just like she gets every other guy and its making me really depressed and all of my self-esteem just went away to neverland. i'm average looking at least and i have a nice personality, what do i do to solve this problem? get uglier friends?
2007-01-12 11:53:26 · 16 answers · asked by b2k4ever08 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, no, this is the perfect chance for you to find a guy and know that he truely likes you for who you are. wouldn't it be better if you found a guy that would go for you while your "prettier" friend is right there. you'll be able to know that he realy likes you and is not like the rest of the other guys that are drooling all over your friend at the moment
2007-01-12 12:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Fallen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need uglier friends ..... you need better friends. A friend who knows you like a certain person wouldn't try to hook up with him. Also if the guy is just going by how the woman looks he a very shadow individual and you can do better. A relationship that is based on looks alone will not last, because there is always somebody better looking around the corner.
2007-01-12 20:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is truly your friend and knew that you liked this guy then she isn't your friend. A friend wouldn't hurt you like that. She sounds very selfish and self centered. If all this guy wants is good looks then forget him. But you really need to work on getting your courage and self esteem up or that won't be the last time you lose a guy you like to a pretty witch!
2007-01-12 20:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright little lady you better cut it out. So your friend is pretty who cares. And a hot body probably comes with that right. You never know what your friend does for that attention. And if a guy likes you he will be into only you. Try meeting guys without her being around. Don't be that hard on yourself, and don't stop being her friend. What if she did that to you because you didn't met her rating of beauty. She can't help who she is, I bet your pretty you just feel ignored. Because she gets so much attention.
2007-01-12 20:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your friend know you liked him? If so then i say you talk to her about it she may just of wanted what you did. Maybe she did it on purpose. Let her know you liked him , if she stays with him just forget her, a real friend would never go out with a guy her friend liked unless she liked him too, and wanted to get him first or over you. Maybe if you tell her you feel that way that she gets all the guys maybe she would want to try and help you out and get some of these guys.
2007-01-12 20:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by Heather S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol maybe your so called "much prettier friend" just knows how to approach guys without being all self conscious. Maybe you worry too much about how you look like and that has an effect on your ability to be confident. I suggest just being your self and not worrying to much on what people think. Just carry yourself like your worth something and show confidence. People will treat you like how you treat yourself so if you show to people or act like your confident people will see that your confident and your inner beauty will show because of that. And people will notice you more and start to have their own opinions about you good or bad.
best of wishes, Keisha
2007-01-12 19:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she got him!! Its not like the poor man had no say sorry to say this but he got her to!!!!!! there's nothing you can do about that so back off and go on with your life as hard as that might seem. I'm sure your pretty to but it doesn't matter pretty or hot some girls might be in the end its the guys choice and guys have different taste so its not your fault its nobody fault. don't let your self down that's no good you should never put your self last its not worth it so go out do something nice and enjoy what you've got.
2007-01-12 20:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know what...did your friend know that you liked the guy? If so she's not your friend....and another thing stop putting yourself down by calling yourself average looking, find ways to build up your self esteem, stop being negative and shy( if you are) and maybe one day you'll get the guy you want
2007-01-12 19:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that everyone has something about them that makes them attractive to different people. The one thing you have to know is that you have something rather it's the way you carry your self, your personality, or even your conversation that will make you attractive to someone else that comes along. You can't measure your self to others based on looks. You probably have something to offer someone else that will like for you for those qualities. Hold on girl.
2007-01-12 20:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by nina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grrl don't ever down yourself just to fit someone elses standards. If they want you just for your lust, then they are not worth having in the first place. And I would have a few words to say to that friend (if she knew i wanted him), and she still had to nerve to get him. If your friend knew you wanted him then she isn't worth having either.
Luv Ur Grrl,
Aleria
2007-01-12 20:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by Aleria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋