Meets me, we get along great. Tells me she has to quit her job b/c ahe is hgaving feelings for a married co-worker. Date for 5 months. I ask her to move in. Re-arranges my house to her liking. Tells me she saw her ex-bf when she went home for a week. "nothing happened". But then describes how they had really good sex when they were dating. Still no job. I lay down law. Say get a job in 1 month. She accuses me of being "verbally abusive". Takes me to her class reunion. Hits on a TON of guys. Gets drunk. Takes me to a wedding. Tells table of people we are sitting with a story about sex w/her 1st bf. I almost leave but we are in a diif state. At end of month, still no job. I pay mortgage, all bills, and food and entertainment. I get her to go on ONE job interview...I come home from work...its a week before X-mas. She's packing her car. She leaves to go live in Mom and Dads basement. Shes 29. I tell her to fill up her car cuz anything she cant fit is mine...she leaves.
2007-01-12 11:45:42 · 20 answers · asked by csiders30 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a b-word. haha (Gotta keep the site clean!)
You don't need that. She's just trying to make herself look good...and make you jealous. My guess is that she's seriously insecure.
Doing what is known as "leveling"....trying to belittle you to make you at HER lever.
Don't take that crap. That was crossing the line--especially the wedding thing. Things like that are sacred...not to be talked trash about. She just made herself look bad not you. Sounds like hoe....getting drunk...talking bout all that nonsense. Have some respect woman! Gah.
2007-01-12 11:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking advantage of you is more like it. It probably should have been a screaming red light for you when she talked about falling for a married co-worker and how great her previous sex life was. Oh well, if you knew then what you know now, huh? She stuck around for as long as she could get away with it. It's good that you put your foot down! At 29 you'd think she be more mature, but that would be in the nonexistent perfect world, right? I'm happy for you! Now that negative element is out of your life and you can move on to bigger and better things and find someone worth your affections!
2007-01-12 20:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by *Photo-op* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is using you. It looks from what you have said she just wanted a free ride someone to pay her way and when you wouldn't anymore she left. It looks like she has never had to take responsibility for herself. At the age of 29 she should have a good job and not have to go home to mommy and daddy. If she was with you when she quit her job because she was having feelings for a married co-worker (most likely she was fired and it was more than just feelings) she never liked you. If she liked you there would be no feelings. I suggest just getting her out of your life as fast as you can, move on and never look back. You sound like a nice guy you can do better than that.
2007-01-12 19:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by ice_princess_sweetie_pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any girl that falls for married men, shacks up with a guy only 5 months after meeting them, dates her ex-boyfriend and brags about their sex life, lives off a man (you) like a common wh*re, talks trash at a wedding, and then goes to live in mommy's basement is TOTAL LOSER.
Be a little more careful about who you choose to get involved with, and don't be so quick to shack up with women you hardly know.
2007-01-12 19:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah man, I hate to say it, but that sounds like a horrible plot to an even worse movie.
I don't know if she was necessarily using you, I just think she's got some serious problems and doesn't really know how to cope. So she finds a decent enough guy like you, and puts your through the ropes.
But think of it this way, even if she was using you, you're helluva lot better off now that she's gone...
Sorry to hear, and good luck.
2007-01-12 19:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by allthree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was lonely and wanted attention. Being insecure, she did things just to get guys. Even though she was probably just using you, she probably thought she could count on you to support her....I don't know what else to say to you...if you really like her, then you should try visiting her and asking her how she's doing and things like that. But I don't think you can do anything more for her since it seems like she already...well...given up on herself. If that's the case, move on; you'll find somebody else.
Good luck
2007-01-12 19:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by michelleee♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Honey she's using you, you've given here an easy ride you supported her while she messed around with other guys its very clear, especially when she starts trying to leave you when she realizes that you are the type of guy who will make her help support herself, you didn't need a girl who acts like that anyway.
2007-01-12 19:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Natasha!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you stay with her after she described good sex with her ex? That was your first clue that it was time to get rid of her.
2007-01-12 19:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by smile 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a stupid B*I*T*C*H and you should be glad shes gone shame on her for bein a dizzy W*H*O*R*E not all girls are like that you just got hung up with a wana be gold digger.
2007-01-12 19:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, I agree with you for doing that. Shes got probs
2007-01-12 19:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋