We've had an amazing 6 moths together and the love and admiration I have for her is boundless. About 4 weeks ago she bacame cold and distant, shrugging off any attempts at being close. We know each other pretty well and when asked about her current behavior she confessed to having a crush on someone, had been spending time witrh them, and the possibility that it could get phyical was immenient.
Then as the talk got heated she admitted to still having many of the same feelings that we had at the onset of the relationship. She feels that she can never be faithful, I don't buy it. What we share is wonderful and I know that it takes hard work to keep things fresh... but am I an idioit? Is it mental to want her this badly regardless of this crush, acted upon or not?
2007-01-12 11:42:02 · 6 answers · asked by RandomJay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not mental....its love......remember that.....
Yours Truly,
~Miley~
2007-01-12 11:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have exprecined this. I had a girlfriend and we lasted for about 2 months, she started to ignore me and not hugg me. The only thing different for the problems is that my girlfriend didn't say she could be trusted. And for "is it mental to want her this badly" its bad and good. The good way is that you truly love her, no matter that she is flirting or going out with this guy. The bad way is, i hopefully doubt its the prob, you have a dependecy on this girl. And if u want to get all scientific bout it i put sum stuff on the bottom;;;
Well, this is very common as for girls after such a good relationship, the chemicals that women contain eventullay wear off. This is one reason, or, heres another. Theres 2 groups of girls that are short-terms and long-terms. Short-terms are hot, attract many people of the oppisite sex, long-terms are the oppisite and attract few of the oppisite sex.
2007-01-12 19:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are that she's already done something with him. most girls admit a lighter version than what really happens. dump her, even though u dont want to. if its hard for her to stay faithful during the first 6 months, a long term relationship would have no chance of surviving. she'll realize the mistake she's made but only after u've found someone worth your time. good luck
2007-01-12 19:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by b2k4ever08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not an idiot, but do take heed. If the woman has told you that she doesn't think she can be faithful, then be careful with your heart. You can still care about her but give her some space and time to decide. Use precaution on getting attached to her because you may get hurt.
2007-01-12 20:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by laedeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can never make up there mind about anything. Then when you get pissed they accuse you of "not understanding". Be a man and dump her. Quit getting played. It will hurt for a while but at least you'll have your self-respect.
2007-01-12 19:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by csiders30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jay move on what are you waiting for, her to break your hart, she is going to keep you on the side until she finds someone else she has a crush on. she had a crush on this gut spent time with him, and found out, he was not all that, and now back to you. until she meets someone else, take off don't be her stepping stone!!
2007-01-12 19:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sir Hard & Thick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋