How do I get him to open up to me? How can I make him mine?

Question

I told him how I felt about him, but nothing really happened after that. Since then, we've become more close and more flirty. But, everytime I'll compliment him, he'll go very shy and change the subject. I think sometimes he thinks I'm kidding cause I can be sarcastic about those things...

He doesn't really like to talk about that kinda stuff, he gets really shy and sometimes I think it's cause he only sees me as a friend, but then sometimes he'll say things like I'm really beautiful and funny and, to him, nothing's better than being with me.

Oh and he once said something about starting a relationship with me, but we never got around to talking about it!

So.. I wanna know, how do I make him mine? I thought I've done the most I can, but this isn't getting me any result.

Answer 1

from a guys point most guys dont care about the BF GF title stuff.. if a guy likes you he has accepted that you have some qualities he finds appealing. If you want him you have to reall pay attention to how he reacts in certain situations and if he is unfortable, learn what types of thing relax him and make him focus on you or something positive. you dont have to always compliment a guy because if you do it too much, it might seem fake even if is genuine.

Girls tend to talk mor ethen guys so try listening a little bit and slow down!! lol females tend to get excited and lose us in the whirlwind. Be his friend first.. then let love develop in ots own time.

Best of luck to you

Answer 2

Well, I suppose you have two choices:

1. Track him down and tell him you really want to talk to him about what he said about a relationship. Be direct. Be audacious. Be brave. You only have so much time in life and it can waste away fast...

2. Kidnap him and chain him in your basement closet, then tie him to a chair in said basement with only a bright lamp over his head and tell him "we can do this the easy way or we can do this the hard way!" Then interrogate him until he tells you what you want to know. Thumbscrews are optional. Anyhow, now that he is your slave - even if it's illegal and against his will - you can now say that he is yours. Who knows? Maybe he'll like it?

Answer 3

You already open yourself to him and in your brief story he likes you as a friend.He is beginning to like you so don't be in a hurry let him open again the topic about starting a relationship but don't show your true feeling because later on you might get disappointed with the outcome.

Answer 4

Ok, I think there is reason behind his reaction, or it s because he used to be like that with girls.
So,Ask him honestly, coz , i feel speaking honestly and frankly ll give u all wat u want to know, and know the reasons.
if he s shy coz he s so, give him time to think and deal with situation.If does not work, so just friends,
wat s the problem with friendship?; it s the best methode to have those who u can t have them as husbands and boyfriends, all of that re feelings , holly feelings. it s enough to find him beside u whenever u need him, and his help. u think that there s someone thinks abt u all the time as friend, may be if u get him as a boyfriend , u ll be hurt more than a friend. gud luck.

Answer 5

Well sometimes you have to take it a little farther and be aggressive. So dress real sexy a way he has not not seen you and take him out to show him how much he do mean to you. While you at dinner stare at him, and when he ask why are you looking at him that way, let him know how you feel about him.

Answer 6

Wake up he is just a friend and that's all he wants, if you want more look some where else. When you start looking he may decide he wants you.

Answer 7

lay it all on the table,be forceful in what you say im sure hell clue on

Answer 8

Just be yourself!