Meets me, we get along great. Tells me she has to quit her job b/c ahe is hgaving feelings for a married co-worker. Date for 5 months. I ask her to move in. Re-arranges my house to her liking. Tells me she saw her ex-bf when she went home for a week. "nothing happened". But then describes how they had really good sex. Still no job. I lay down law. Say get a job in 1 month. She accuses me of being "verbally abusive". Takes me to her class reunion. Hits on a TON of guys. Gets drunk. Takes me to a wedding. Tells table of people we are sitting with a story about sex w/her 1st bf. I almost leave but we are in a diif state. At end of month, still no job. I pay mortgage, all bills, and food and entertainment. I get her to go on ONE job interview...I come home from work...its a week before X-mas. She's packing her car. She leaves to go live in Mom and Dads basement. Shes 29. I tell her to fill up her car cuz anything she cant fit is mine...she leaves. What is the deal with chicks? With me?
2007-01-12 11:40:46 · 18 answers · asked by csiders30 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have done her a big favor. The best thing she has ever done for you is to move on so you can meet the right person. You sound like a man the want things out of life. Just treat this as a learning experience. She is stuck on a person that clearly don't want her, because if he did , she wouldn't have been living with you and now living in her parents basement. She'll need you again, but you need to think about this before you decide to give her another shot at using you again; HOW CAN YOU MEET MS. RIGHT IF YOU ARE DEALING WITH MS. WRONG??? Next time you look for someone. Ask yourself: what is she bringing to the table? you have a job( does she have a job) You have a mortgage( does she have a mortgage?) and not rent! what is her parents like? How do she dress herself is she a honest person? does she talk about her ex? ( if she does run!!!) what is her work ethnics? Date her for awhile and the Truth will come out soon. A person can't hide what the really are for long. Check her home out unexpectedly see how see keep her home that can tell allot about a person. She was really using you and then she no respect for you at all. Get on with your life and tell her Thank you for teaching a life lesson. When she ask what was that you Tell her, For the lesson of knowing what you don't want in your life and what type of women to look out for.
2007-01-12 12:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be mentally ill. She may be just an inconsiderate, self centered person. She may just be immature, although by 29 years old you'd think she'd know how to behave better than that. Whatever the reasons are for her behaviour, let her go. You sound like a mature, together guy. You don't need to deal with a child until you decide to have one!!
2007-01-12 19:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Bastet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got rid of a LOSER,sorry had to say that.You can find someone good,just ask all the impotant questions to her before ya'll get involved.Like where are you working? Are you single? So where do you live? Then you will no if she is worth having.Good Luck!
2007-01-12 19:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Summer :) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeh i think she was if a gurl moves in w/ no job u need to lay down the law and say get a job u bum! casue thats how my bro is soon he'll being that so next time be careful!
2007-01-12 19:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by Kallee n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She not only is using you she is making a fool of you. Tell her to get out and help her pack while she is there with you and then load her car and yours and take it to where ever she is moving to and say GOODBYE FOR GOOD
2007-01-12 19:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, are you leaving out anything about substance abuse (beside her getting drunk at the wedding) because most adults do not behave that way.
2007-01-12 19:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like an immature loser. And maybe a little slutty too. You can do better than that! She totally took advantage of you. It's not you--she needed to grow up.
2007-01-12 19:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Andreamy_23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you let her use you the whole way through. Sorry, hope that you at least learned from the experience.
2007-01-12 19:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to say no!!!!! No matter what the heartbreaking story is!!! Some women are just as sneaking as men....
2007-01-12 19:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah she really was. Better luck next time
2007-01-12 19:45:26 · answer #10 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋