My best friend has this boyfriend but he doesnt like her, he's always talking about her and he's always hurting her but she just continues to go out with him. and he just continues to hurt her feelings. He also embarrises her in front of everyone! I told her about this and how I feel but now she's about to go back out with him..she's jus waiting to get hurt AGAIN! what should i do?
2007-01-12 11:34:56 · 20 answers · asked by Kiana A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well try with him or with anyone of his friends to talk to him to stop hurting ur friend feelings
if he didnt stop
talk to ur friend and ask her to get out from his life and find any guy who will really treat her good and never hurt her again
if she didnt listen to u then its her life and no one can blame u
2007-01-12 11:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are a very caring friend but, I think you should try letting her solve her own problems she will come around. I think that he is a very bad boyfriend if she is always getting hurt from his words. I think that she should find a boyfriend who is worth her time and who will treat her with respect, and who will not talk about her behind her back. I think that what he is doing is wrong and that she should just move on with her life and find a man who is going to lover her.
2007-01-12 11:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by nonestopchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her boyfriend to stop or else. If that happened to my best friend I will make that boy pay! If that doesn 't work talk to your friend and share your feelings so hard, she will understand and do what you say! If that dumb boyfriend of hers embarrises her again stand up for her! I hope you really good luck! I can give you more addvise 2morrow!
2007-01-12 11:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly hope he isnt physcially abusive as well. Maybe your friend has low self esteem. She needs to establish a sense of self-worth before she gets into a relationship. She should consider seeing a therapist or talking to a school counselor if she is still in school. If she doesnt get help soon she is setting herself up for a lifetime of bad relationships.
2007-01-12 11:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jaigurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if he really is hurting her he might hurt her so bad it could be to late she has to wake up for herself its hard to see that happening and she is blinded by love so help her see it or have a serious talk tell her your my best friend and it hurts to see u getting hurt even if it means to take serous action like getting proof and go to the cops shell be mad but youll be saving her life maybe she doesnt feel good about herself and she thinks noone loves her or ever will but help her see shes worth it take her out or something to reach her or just be there every step of the way be strong so u can help her to be strong and fight for her self respect
2007-01-12 11:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by dvcgurl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be suffering from low self esteem. The best way you can help her with this is by trying to boost her confidence. Let her know that she deserves better and can easily find another boyfriend. Be positive. Don't berate her for staying with him, that may make the condition worse.
2007-01-12 11:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by Diminati 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've done your part by telling her. Now you're supposed to be a real friend. Be there whenever she needs you. Don't be too critical. That's not what she needs. Just be there when she needs an ear to listen or maybe a shoulder to cry on. Maybe she'll see what is going on in thier relationship and dumb him.
2007-01-12 11:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by lottanoise2day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her to get some therapy, self esteem and a new boyfriend...after she gets therapy and some self esteem. She will continue to attract the same types of guys if she doesn't feel good about herself.
2007-01-12 11:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by Suu S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your best friend to piss off. you don't need her. Why would want to hang with a girl that is that stupid. Go get a friend you can mold and manipulate, have her do your bidding. Friends are a dime a dozen
2007-01-12 11:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by Taco Pete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is really nothing that you can do to split them up - your friend will realise that her bf is no good for her and will break up with him. When that happens, be there to support her through the healing process and remind her how awful he is when she thinks about getting back with him!
2007-01-12 11:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by ForeverAnAngel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋