To start this out i am 12 years old. lastweekend when my parents werent home my sister who is 17 threw a party and all of her friends came. There was the usual drinking but thats it. I was up in my room and her friend jessica came up who is bigger than me froced me to take off my cloths and she sucked my ding dong. I am afrtaid to tell my sister and parents cause i knew she was drunk. SHe forced me to do this. What should i do.
2007-01-12 11:32:19 · 23 answers · asked by Blumkin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's rape...tell now!
OK, i know how you feel, i have been raped and molested...i know u feel like you cant tell, but u hav to...just tell ur mummy and daddy what happened ok?
then they will talk to the police, and they will take it from there...you need to tell, no matter how hard it may be, tell.
best of luck
2007-01-12 11:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, I hope you are telling the truth, because this is a serious problem, that if not taken care of, can really lead to emotional issues down the road. I would first start by talking to a counselour and see what they suggest because one - your sisters friend might deny it, most likely will, and two - your sister will probably believe them and not you. Although I am not sure what your parents would believe, I would talk to a counselour, or an adult you completely trust. If it is your parents, then I would start by talking to them. Many teen agers, preteens in this case do not feel comfortable talking with a parent at first and that is understandable. You need to be comcortable first off, and I would suggest you talk to an adult you are comfortable with. If you're not comfortable with any, I would suggest a school counselour or school phsycologist. But you should talk to an adult asap, and they will help you take it from there. Need anymore help, please email me asap. And good luck, and sorry to hear about thatm thats totally not cool fo her, and she has no right to do that to you. No one does, and remember that.
2007-01-12 11:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by Run Kalula Run 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your a family member or police. This is immoral and is called rape. You were an unconsenting minor.no person should be able to get away with this whether they were intoxicated or not!. you have nothing to be ashamed of, it wasn't your doing. but you should be doing the right thing now and alerting someone to the fact that this has happened. You may not be the only person she has done this to and if you don't nip this in the bud now there will be more unnecessary hardships faced by others. Let your sister know that the crowd she is hanging with will ruin her reputation, as its just ruined your childhood
2007-01-12 11:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by scarlettstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, im sorry.
You only have 2 options since you are only 12: Tell somebody or keep it to yourself.
It would be best to tell your sister...that way she can work it out with her friend, and your parents wont have to know about your sisters party.
....but if this is not fake then your girlfriend is your sisters friend and she tried to have sex with you??? So thats also bad. Tell your sister.
2007-01-12 11:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im guessing you dont want to tell your parents because your sister is going to get in big trouble and you don't want to tell your sister because you'll feeel like a geek and wont let you tell your parents! well i really do think you should tell because that's like sexual harrassment and A RAPE!!!!!! omfg drunk or not AT LEAST YOUR SIS'S FRIEND WOULD THINK ABOUT RAPING A 12 YEAR OLD omg omg omg tell your parents FIRST and then TELL YOUR SISTER IF YOUR PARENTS ARE HOME YET!! omg omg i feel sorry!!! YOU SHOULD OF WHOOPED HER AS$ oh well next time that happens whoop her as$ no matter how small you are! small people kill people you know!
2007-01-12 11:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by x3_myz_k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well your saying that she raped you, so if she did rape you then you should defintly tell your sister and or your parents but know that when you tell them they are going to flip out so if she didnt truly force youand you did consent to it even the slightest bit then dont say raped or forced cuz that can mess up a persons life forever but most defintly say somthing :)
2007-01-12 11:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drunk or not you need to tell you parents if this really happen
2007-01-12 11:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by Don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am telling you that you should report this person for what she has done! She has violated the law and committed statutory rape. This could traumatise you later on in life.
2007-01-12 11:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Roman S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents!!!!!! Tell them exactly what happened, you didnt do anything wrong. If anyone did, it was her, drunk or not
2007-01-12 11:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by Meggan P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents and report this to the police. She raped you and should go to jail.
2007-01-12 11:35:37 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋