shes hot and sweet and stuff but i dont like her and im mean to her i treat her like trash. why does she stay with me ?
2007-01-12 11:25:49 · 46 answers · asked by Benjie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe it has something to do with her age and maybe she feels self conscience and she really doesn't want to be alone because mabye it seems to late to find someone else in life.... or she could just not have had better relationships and what u 2 have actually seems like some break to her something positive with another person she has never experienced which could be pretty sad since you admit you dont treat her right... It might be best to break up with her soon but a girl whose hot and sweet and would take that is someone worth taking serious and being with...that sounded like i had a vag..... lol Good luck
2007-01-12 11:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by Martin SCholserZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because she loves you & love is blind. You shouldn't take advantage of her love. You shouldn't treat her like trash either. It's not a good thing to do to a person who cares about you. If your treating her like trash so she will break up with you, it's not going to work. If you don't like her than you gotta tell her (in a mature way) so she can move on with her life. She will be hurt, but the best thing you can do is to let her go as soon as possible. The sooner you let her go, the sooner she will forget about you.
2007-01-12 11:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have the guts to break up with her yourself. Maybe she has low self esteem, maybe she really likes you, WHO KNOWS why she's staying with you when you are obviously so horrible to her!
It is NEVER OK to hurt a woman, whether it is physically, emotionally, or in any other way. So get out of the relationship right now, and get yourself some help before you go on to hurt the next woman and the next that you get into a relationship with.
2007-01-12 11:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by melissa b 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
So what do you think will end up hurting her more, you making her feel like trash sooner or later OR you owning up to your feelings and just tell her strait up that your relationship is not working. She knows that you hurt her, and she probably goes home and cries over it all the time. You are most likely doing damage to her self esteem. I am sure the reason you won't tell her is because you don't want to hurt her...but you are making yourself look like an *** hole and you are causing more damage. Not to be blunt or anything. Tell her and be done with it.
2007-01-12 11:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One could ask, "Why do you keep her around?" but the answer to that is obvious. Makes her definitely look very confused about what a relationship should be like. More interesting is that you reject someone who has, if not love, at least a great amount of loyalty to you. You reject, and I quote you, "hot, sweet and stuff," except to satisfy your basest needs...hmm...either you're base or you don't know what you want.
What is it that you think you need?
2007-01-12 11:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real question here is why do you treat her like this? I mean if she is so great, why do you feel you have to do this to her. She could be staying because she loves you and hopes that things will change and be better in the long run...how bout you go prove her right.
2007-01-12 11:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She obviously doesn't think much of herself! Why don't you do the right thing and leave her be. You are making her self worth and self esteem a real issue and one day it will surely hurt her in more ways than you could have ever guessed. Besides that, it will definetely come back on you. Karma, my friend! It hurts when you have it coming and in my opinion, you HAVE it coming! Watch your back and everywhere else if you continue to abuse this young lady!
2007-01-12 11:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being a jerk. You should not treat women like that. And if she is young she just might not know better or not know how to handle certain situations or guys like you. Guys like you can scar a girl for life and if she is young she may think that its normal and thats just not right. You need to man up and have some respect.
2007-01-12 11:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by XoXoGlitter 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This happens a lot. Do not question her motives but look at your own. You are obviously trying to get rid of her by trying to get her to leave but this kind of girl whether she knows it or not thrives off the drama. You gotta get someone you like and live your life. And don't be afraid to beak it off cold, you'll be doing you both a favour...you'll see. Otherwise you'll turn into a monster.
2007-01-12 11:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by J t 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Masochist! It's a very bad thing to suffer from!!!!! See in her mind she thinks that if she's nicer to you, you'll stop talking to her! She has low self esteem even the most beautiful people suffer from this! She thinks she deserves it and that's why she sticks around! Ask yourself if you truly want to be with her b/c you could end up doing her alot of harm in the long run!
2007-01-12 11:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by Maria C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋