Practice practice practice, either alone or with your partner. When alone, find out what really turns you on, the right spots to hit etc... When with your partner, never be afraid to tell him what you want. For one, he won't be embarassed or think that he's not doing it right, if anything he will think wow this woman knows what she wants and is not afraid to tell me.
I very rarely achieve the big O by penetration alone, I have to have clitoral stimulation, and these 2 combined will give you one hell of a orgasam.
The best postition to achieve this is with the lady on top and then you also have the oppurtunity to stimulate yourself.Something which will turn your partner on even more.
Women shouldn't be embarrased to talk about sex and what pleasures them. But sometimes society can often make women think that it's wrong to talk about what they want in the bedroom.
Being confident in the bedroom with out being to "cocky" will boost your confidence and your sex life.
Another little trick, which i found out alone, is the female ejaculation. This can be quite difficult to achieve but once mastered, it's so very satisfying. I have only found this to work with just clitoral stimulation alone. As you start to c.u.m, don't stop the stimulation, carry on, it almost feels as though you're about to pee, but don't worry you wont. Once you have got over that it feels as though you're about to orgasam again and then the lady ejaculates. I guess it's simular to achieveing a multipul orgasam. It can be very sensitive and takes alot of practice, but believe me, it's like a packet of prigles, once you pop, you just can't stop.
good luck ladies.
2007-01-12 12:46:18
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answered by melanie 2
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All 3 ways can be achieved by stimulating each thing. Practise with yourself and then practise with a mate. The more you learn about what pleases you the more you can communicate that to your partner. And that BIG O is awesome!
2007-01-12 18:58:50
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answered by Sweety 2
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In a bus interior the middle of the nighttime between Kunnanurra and Darwin! The bus driving force threatened to throw us off interior the middle of the outback after i began out guffawing after the massive O!!
2016-10-07 01:56:22
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answered by ? 4
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I leave out toys because from what I've heard alot of women over stimulate the clit and it makes it hard to do anything without one.
It's quite possible to get one from just using your fingers but you just need to work and let it build up
Some women expect to big O on their first few tries..
I think we're just as clueless as men sometimes about our you know what. ;)
2007-01-12 12:02:59
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answered by jessicaroser9234 1
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Definitly invest in a vibrator - you want be sorry, get to know your body and then you know what to ask for : )
2007-01-12 12:37:25
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answered by Prunella 1
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Lots of foreplay and don't be afraid to say that you like or dislike something.
2007-01-12 11:29:13
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answered by flappymcp 4
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practice makes perfect
2007-01-12 12:23:44
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answered by empanda 3
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If you want a mind blowing "O", experiment with your g-spot...will have u cumming all over all the time
2007-01-12 11:29:00
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answered by Meggan P 3
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If i told you that it wouldnt be a secret
2007-01-12 11:27:53
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answered by zanydumplings 3
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come and spend the night (and next day!) with me, you won't be disappointed!
2007-01-12 11:50:23
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answered by gekkoish 2
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