She is in my class from 4 months. I really like her since my first day.I want to be her friend a very good friend.I try to close her but when i see she is more interested in some other class fellow i just walkout and not talking to her since last one month.and latter i found that it was my wrong perception.
I am married and this thing is stopping me to ask her that i want to be her friend. I fear she will reject me.
Since i am not talking to her i found in her eyes that she likes me .
Our classes are going to end in april and i am really getting sick.I can not live without her friendship.i dont know how to say her that i want to be her friend ?
Can any one give me good words what to say to her.
Can a girl can be friend of a married person?
Mazhar
Canada
2007-01-12 11:01:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES, U CAN BE FRIENDS W. ANY1, OKAY WHAT U CAN SAY IS " I'VE SEEN YOU IN CLASS AND WELL I WANTED TO NO IF U'LL LIKE TO HANG OUT AND BE FRIENDS" U NEVER NO TELL U ASK CUZ IF U DONT U'LL ASK UR SELF THAT Q THE REST OF UR LIFE
2007-01-12 11:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by CANDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all let me tell you that you CAN live without her, you just don't know it. I think it's unhealthy to have such strong feelings of "friendship" for someone if you're grown...more importantly if you're married. Your wife should be your best friend and the one you can't figuratively "live without." Take some time and really detach yourself from this person in your class and use that energy for your wife. The devil is just tempting you by this "friendship" in your class; how do you think your wife would feel by you prolonging a friendship with a woman from your class, especially after the class ends in April - clearly unhealthy. How would you feel if your wife had similar feelings for some guy at work? Good Luck!!
2007-01-12 11:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a disgusting pig...
how could you even disrespect ur wife like that!? not just feeling that way but having the nerves to tell the whole world. if i were the girl i wouldnt give you the time of day. what do you have going 4 u, ur whole paragraph seems like it was written by a 2nd grader. plus i hope ur wife realizes what a dog u are and leave you. if you want a friend talk to ur wife the person who is supposed to be ur best friend and if ur going to find a 'friend'. give ur wife some kind of respect and divorce her first. because if she finds ur cheating and divorces you, she can, and will get half or even more of what ur A** owns!!!
2007-01-12 11:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, a girl can be a really good friend to a guy that is married. Just make sure that your wife knows that you just want to be friends with her. Then start a conversation with the girl you want to be friends with. And tell her that you just want to be friends and see what she says. It is better to find out, then to live without knowing what she wouldv't said.
2007-01-12 11:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by ambey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with a married person having a friend of the opposite sex but your heading says you cant live without her and that's different.
2007-01-12 11:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea a female can be friends who are married. There is nothing wrong with that. And just walk up to her and ask her if she would like to hang out with you sometime.
2007-01-12 11:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by Britney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're very dramatic.... maybe if you put the amount of time and effort you clearly spend worrying about her into your relationship with your wife, you wouldn't need her friendship.
2007-01-12 11:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound obsessed man. I think you want to be more than her friend, which would mean you will be unfaithful to your wife.
And besides, girls arent attracted to wussy stuff.
2007-01-12 11:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by undrgrndhiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just b friends wit her. its not that hard dude.
2007-01-12 11:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by calvin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can live without her... just get a grip..
2007-01-12 11:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋