I can not live without her.?

Question

She is in my class from 4 months. I really like her since my first day.I want to be her friend a very good friend.I try to close her but when i see she is more interested in some other class fellow i just walkout and not talking to her since last one month.and latter i found that it was my wrong perception.
I am married and this thing is stopping me to ask her that i want to be her friend. I fear she will reject me.
Since i am not talking to her i found in her eyes that she likes me .
Our classes are going to end in april and i am really getting sick.I can not live without her friendship.i dont know how to say her that i want to be her friend ?
Can any one give me good words what to say to her.
Can a girl can be friend of a married person?
Mazhar
Canada

Answer 1

Forget about it,and concentrate on your wife.. remember her? the one you married

Answer 2

You can't live without her friendship? But you are not close enough to yet know her well enough to ask her to be a friend? And all of this certainly complicated by the fact you are married?

What you are really talking about is that you are very attracted to someone who you don't really know, and that in your head you've built up a lot of unrealistic expectation about this person. And you feel you cannot continue on without that person you've imagined. Unfortunately you are in for a very rude awakening:

Assuming you find the courage or whatever you need to talk to her and begin a friendship, you will either put her on an unattainable pedestal that bears not relation to reality, or you will discover that she is not 100% the person you have built her up to be.

So, here are the things you should focus on:

1) You absolutely positively CAN live without her and without her friendship. She is neither food or shelter, you will continue on.
2) When you say you want a friend, be honest with yourself about what you really want. And when you do that, can you honestly reconcile that with being married? The fact that you think your being married would prevent her from being your friend is a clear indicator of just what type of friendship you'd like (but, for the record, there is no reason a girl can't have a friend that is married - just not a good idea for THAT kind of friend).