I like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. I told myself to get over it. I can't! I'm dreaming about him. I like him so much it scarse me. HELP!
2007-01-12 10:57:19 · 19 answers · asked by Wisper in the Dark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a hobby and a new crush.
2007-01-12 10:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, he has a girlfriend? Is she the Queen or something?
If he is not married, or engaged then there is not a binding commitment that should keep you or, him if he so desires, to get to know one another.
If you like him you should let him know that. He can choose to act, or not act. If he feels his current relationship is valued or he has made a commitment you are unaware of he should and if he is the sort you want to be involved with he will act appropriately. If you know no more than he is dating another then there is no harm in letting him know how you feel.
Just be true to yourself and and act according to what you feel is right. All will work out as it should.
2007-01-12 19:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by MtnManInMT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stick by him. Just be friends with him. Get closer and closer to him but not so close as to even look as if you're going out. Just be really good friends. Then when he eventually breaks up with his girlfriend, you'll be there for him and after some time (I can't tell you exactly how long) he may start liking you and you guys go out. He might not like you though so it may not work.
2007-01-12 19:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is definitely a helpless feeling to have. I think we all have that feeling at some point in our lives, but there is not much we can do in that situation. Just wait it out and maybe someday his girlfriend will fall off the face of the earth and you may have a chance.
2007-01-12 19:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by chrissy g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a bit going over the top with this lad! Lol, he may have a girlfriend but it does not stop you from having a friendship with this lad. But before you express your feelings, make sure you know how he is going too react. He may have a girlfriend, but being friend's won't hurt him..Will it? Good Luck!
2007-01-12 19:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by JackTheRipperDude!_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya. that is a sticky situation. i totally understand. my only advice would be to try to get over him. if u don't BAD things will happen. trust me. nothing will turn out well. you will all just be unhappy. it will be really hard to tell yourself you can't have him but tell yourself there ARE other guys and someday u will find the right one. hang out with your friends, go to the mall, do stuff to keep yourself distracted. eventually he won't be your main focus. if you set your mind to it you can do anything. GOOD LUCK! hope i helped.
2007-01-12 19:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dreaming of him and you prollie like him 10 times mroe because now that he has a gf .. girls always want what they cant have[guys aswell] because it comes as a challenge or when you see him with someone else, you wish you were that someone .. its only natural. your best bet is to just forget about him and stil be friends and what not .. if its menat to be it will happen okay hun ! <33
2007-01-12 19:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Missy H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel that has happened to me but you cant get over it until you dont like him anymore and thats up to you, I'd love to help but its your emotions what can you do?If him and his gf breaks up wait awile and then go for it! GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-01-12 19:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by heytheredelisle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wait because how the hell you are going to mess up somebody else relationship
how would you like it if a ***** ran up to your bf and tells him to get over you???????
2007-01-12 19:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I promise you there are more fish in the the sea :D Just give it time and try not to rush or get ahead of yourself
2007-01-12 18:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by Brandon C 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋